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frantically's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.0
Graphic: Body horror, Mental illness, and Grief
Moderate: Animal death, Death, Eating disorder, and Death of parent
Minor: Gore, Sexual content, and Blood
kreglow's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Graphic: Body horror, Confinement, Sexual content, Suicide, Blood, Grief, and Abandonment
bwoo's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
Graphic: Body horror, Death, and Grief
carolinebl's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
Graphic: Body horror, Mental illness, Blood, Grief, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Death and Dementia
Vivid depiction of hypochondriahellavaral's review against another edition
3.25
Graphic: Body horror, Confinement, Death, Grief, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Fatphobia and Physical abuse
theislandalien's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Body horror, Confinement, Death, and Grief
Moderate: Death of parent
moominquartz's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Body horror and Confinement
Moderate: Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Terminal illness, and Grief
Minor: Death, Homophobia, Vomit, Death of parent, and Lesbophobia
A portion of this book deals with being deep under the ocean and the marine life within.bookbanshee's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.5
Graphic: Body horror and Mental illness
Moderate: Chronic illness, Grief, Death of parent, and Abandonment
klsreads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
The writing itself was poetic and beautiful, and there are some unbelievably strong, visual sections about grief. A few quotes:
"Grief is selfish: we cry for ourselves without the person we have lost far more than we cry for the person—but more than that, we cry because it helps. The grief process is also the coping process and if the grief is frozen by ambiguity, by the constant possibility of reversal, then so is the ability to cope."
"I used to hope, I typed once, that I’d die before my partner, even though I knew that was selfish. I used to think that I hoped I’d die before she died and before the planet died and really just generally before things got any worse. I didn't send this message, specifically because it seemed to imply that my views had changed, when they hadn't."
"I used to think it was vital to know things, to feel safe in the learning and recounting of facts. I used to think it was possible to know enough to escape from the panic of not knowing, but I realize now that you can never learn enough to protect yourself, not really."
Ultimately, I think Our Wives Under the Sea is a contemplation on the terror of uncertainty. Whether about disease, relationships, or the depths of the ocean, there is a vast unknown. When an answer comes, do you turn to the darkness beyond the window, sensing unpredictable horrors trawling the depths? Are we strong enough to withstand this? What do you lose when you cling to certainty? Where and when does life exist - now, in the waiting, or with the certainty of our healthy world, our healthy hearts, our lovely relationships? In the end, I think the author asks, "Can we let go?"
I love sapphic love and I love scary existentialism, so I'm interested in reading more from this author. You might enjoy this book if you're looking for creepy, water-logged atmosphere, poetic prose, and meditations on the grief of being a living, breathing, dying person on this planet. 3.5 stars, rounded up.
Graphic: Body horror, Confinement, Blood, Grief, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Mental illness, Suicide, Terminal illness, Violence, Vomit, and Death of parent
Minor: Fatphobia, Homophobia, and Sexism
sweetpersephone's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.5
Graphic: Body horror and Grief