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The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky

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moomygy's review

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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bicanthropus's review against another edition

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emotional inspiring reflective fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I read this book for the first time in 2012, when I was a freshman in high school. My friends were seeing me as “different” and “odd” and I latched onto this book. This is my second time reading it, over a decade later, and the impact is still massive.

While the way it effects me is different, it still hits. It’s like having a cup of tea or hot chocolate after having a realization about your life that changes everything and nothing all at once. It’s one of those books that sits in the back of your mind and forever has impacted the way you view yourself and the world around you.

I suspected I’d cry reading it again (I sobbed the first time I read it), and I made it through the book without crying. Until the special afterward. I didn’t realize when I got it on audible that it was a special edition and had a bonus letter from “Charlie”. Listening to that last letter was like reading the book for the first time in the way it made me feel.

I can’t express on a book app online how much this story means to me. Re-reading it has made me see how much of the goodness and hope of this book I carry in me, even in my darkest days. This will never not be one of my favorite books of all time for that aspect alone.

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andst's review

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challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I feel like this book really encaptures self-improvement during high school. How, at that age, we feel aimless, worthless, unlikable and inadequate. How we tirelessly look for a sense of belonging and how somehow it's never enough. It's depressing, stressful, and deeply relatable.
Throughout the book Charlie experience a sense of hopelessness while he sees the world (and the people) around him break down into pieces, just to realize that he cannot do anything to fix them no matter how much he tries. All the characters come with their own set of problems and we can see how these problems consume Charlie completely, even if they don't belong to him. Which is something some of us can deeply relate to.
This book makes you feel seen and understood. It encourages you embrace those around you despite their flaws, because we are not perfect either. We are all trying to get through life one day at a time, might as well just do it along those you care for.

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greentea14_s's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional hopeful lighthearted reflective slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

I like how it brought up important topics but it was a bit like torture to read especially near the end when it was being dragged on for so long.

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rainyyymoon's review

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I don’t think I’ve ever read a book where I’ve related to the character so much. Charlie’s description of his depressive episodes, the overthinking, overanalysing and social anxiety was amazing. I think his character building, how he viewed his friends, and his hopes of their happiness was top notch. He is amazing, and I love him so much. I will watch the film later in the week, I’ve heard it’s as good as the book, which I hope.

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