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missypawlakfield's review against another edition
emotional
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hopeful
informative
reflective
sad
medium-paced
marisa_jarrett's review against another edition
5.0
I don't think I have ever read a book that reflects my experience growing up in an evangelical church so closely. This book was incredibly validating and healing for me. I read it slowly, while processing and opening up conversations with friends and family who were raised in the same evangelical environment. It has helped me put words to so many deeply rooted beliefs that I have been trying to untangle for many years! The writer talks about the pushback she received while writing the book, especially from her parents, but I can confidently say that I needed this book.
kvreadsandrecs's review against another edition
3.0
This book is really fascinating but not very well written. It’s just...not. Which is so frustrating. On the one hand, it’s limiting because all the interviews are from white evangelical women, but on the other hand, the author was upfront about that being her experience and only wanting to center on that lens.
This book could have been better, but at least it’s trying?
This book could have been better, but at least it’s trying?
ndrewfan's review against another edition
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5.0
lydiastorytime's review against another edition
5.0
This book should be required reading for everyone who grew up evangelical!
Thank you for this book. This book gifted me with words for my feelings and evidence that I’m not alone. This book has helped me on my journey of untangling myself from shame.
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a survivor of sovereign grace ministry’s this book was painful but also healing. Like surgery, recovery from shame and spiritual abuse is painful. This book at some points was like surgery but it was also the friend who holds your hand as you are cut open. I’m so thankful that there are other people out there healing and sharing their stories. I feel I can breath easier like the metaphorical surgery removed a tumor from my lungs. This book left me with hope not only for the world but hope that maybe there is a God out there. Because I hear and see God all throughout this book. The way Linda describes her encounters with God it reminds me of so many of my experiences. The sharing of stories and journeys of healing and self love glisten with God. God is using the book and movement to bring justice and spread love. God is the love we extend to ourselves and each other as we rid our lives of shame. Uhhh thank you Linda for this beautiful book.
Thank you for this book. This book gifted me with words for my feelings and evidence that I’m not alone. This book has helped me on my journey of untangling myself from shame.
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a survivor of sovereign grace ministry’s this book was painful but also healing. Like surgery, recovery from shame and spiritual abuse is painful. This book at some points was like surgery but it was also the friend who holds your hand as you are cut open. I’m so thankful that there are other people out there healing and sharing their stories. I feel I can breath easier like the metaphorical surgery removed a tumor from my lungs. This book left me with hope not only for the world but hope that maybe there is a God out there. Because I hear and see God all throughout this book. The way Linda describes her encounters with God it reminds me of so many of my experiences. The sharing of stories and journeys of healing and self love glisten with God. God is using the book and movement to bring justice and spread love. God is the love we extend to ourselves and each other as we rid our lives of shame. Uhhh thank you Linda for this beautiful book.
khuizenga's review against another edition
4.0
This is a really important topic I’m glad is being discussed. While I didn’t experience all of the shades of purity culture described in this book, I would posit that most women in the evangelical church have experienced some if not many of them in the past few decades and I’m grateful to see a careful handling of the variety of ways that it has harmed people and how they are dealing with it now. There were some structural weaknesses in the book that made me mark it down a star, but I think the author tried to be as honest about her own biases and as true to the perspectives of the people in this book as possible. I think she should have done more in the final chapters on LGBTQ+ since it felt a bit like it came out of left field, when she could have drawn a stronger parallels between the ways that heterosexual women and the LGBTQ+ community have been reduced to nothing more than their sexuality within the context of many evangelical communities, a point which I think she tried to make but didn’t really solidify.
greenhedgehog's review against another edition
5.0
this was SOOO good. I would recommend this book to everyone and anyone that lived in the 80s and 90s and 00s in the conservative Christian narrative.