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mydearwatsonbooks's review against another edition
Graphic: Racism, Racial slurs, Islamophobia, and Homophobia
Slut-shaming (minor)bookishandlegal's review against another edition
4.5
I learned so much about Tan’s childhood in the UK and his relationship with his husband and journey to the US & onto queer eye. He breaks up a lot of the chapters with fashion and life tips/dos and don’t’s which I found really fun. I don’t agree with him on everything (especially fashion things, but mostly cause I’m not as fashionable) but he has a way of being very firm in his opinion but not making you feel combative or lesser for disagreeing with him.
This book is light and funny but also gets into some pretty deep topics. He talks pretty in depth about his depression and a period where he was suicidal and about 9/11 and the effects on him as a Pakistani male since. These were really well done and had a good mix of being real and very serious, while still making some jokes and bringing humor into it.
I loved all the chapters about Queer Eye and learning more about the process and the behind the scenes of the show. Antoni also made some surprise appearances in the audio which were amazing and another reason to listen to the audio!
Overall I really really enjoyed this memoir and would highly recommend!
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Racism, Racial slurs, and Xenophobia
calster's review against another edition
Graphic: Racial slurs and Racism
Moderate: Homophobia
zombie_giraffe's review against another edition
4.0
It is funny, it is light-hearted and sometimes touching. It is exactly what you expect it to be if you have watched Tan France on TV.
I don't really like some braggy parts and his sometimes very judgemental PSAs. Like the one about belts where he says "Just wear the right size pants, for goodness' sake". Bitch, my weight fluctuates about 3kg depending on my cycle and I am not going to have 10 pairs of pants. Get over it.
Other than that, I liked the book, because I like Tan and this memoir is very much on brand. I feel like I know him better after reading it and I absolutely love that his husband did the illustrations.
It is a great read for a lazy afternoon or a train ride, but it is not the kind of memoir you would be interested in if you are not already a fan of Tan. It is stories from his life told in a very enjoyable way - nothing more, nothing less.
Graphic: Racial slurs and Racism
Moderate: Homophobia
louise010's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Homophobia, Racial slurs, Racism, and Suicidal thoughts
nellkristen's review against another edition
3.75
Moderate: Racism and Racial slurs
leahlovesloslibros's review
5.0
I listened to the audio book, which is narrated by Tan himself, and I really loved it. I typically try to find memoirs that are read by the author, as I find the experience of listening to them tell their own story to be more personal than hearing it told by someone else. Hearing Tan recall childhood memories, especially painful ones such as being bullied for being brown (his word), are so powerful and heart-wrenching. Coming out was also something that was difficult for him, as there were certain cultural expectations placed on him by his traditional Muslim Pakistani family and culture.
Listening to Tan tell the story of starting and running his own businesses, as well as meeting his husband and the progression of their relationship, was both interesting and inspiring. Among his own story, Tan would insert advice on career, love, and just being authentically you. I really enjoyed that this book was not necessarily told completely in chronological order; rather, it was broken up by topics. Sometimes reading memoirs that are told chronologically gets a little dry, in my opinion. This book was told loosely in chronological order, but each chapter read as its own section, which made it almost like short stories. Personally, I love reading memoirs told in this way, so that was a big win for me.
I love Queer Eye, and I absolutely plan to read the book written by the Fab Five as well, but hearing Tan's story individually with bits of the show sprinkled in here and there was such a wonderful way to start my Pride Month 2021 reading.
Graphic: Racism
Moderate: Cursing, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Bullying, and Xenophobia
Minor: Suicidal thoughts
thatsssorachael's review against another edition
3.5
I did have a lot of fun, especially listening to that accent. I recommend the audiobook, for the bonus content alone. It has Antoni in it, do yourself a favour and listen.
Graphic: Racism and Racial slurs
Moderate: Homophobia, Religious bigotry, and Violence
smithy361's review against another edition
Moderate: Bullying, Cursing, Homophobia, Racial slurs, and Racism
jmeslener's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Homophobia, Racism, and Racial slurs