bee324's review against another edition

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challenging dark hopeful reflective fast-paced

4.0

wasa_mata's review

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dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced

5.0

Amazing read, very thankful for my teacher who chose this book for class. I genuinely think every Queer person should read it - actually everyone should. The Queer community is extremely present on the internet, but even us need a good « go touch some grass » moment and this book is pretty much that. 
In a weird way this book pushed me back into activism movement. I left it during Covid, mostly due because of mental health, world events, too much time on the internet seeing how humans are dumb and disgusting. And while I still think the world is going crazy, it’s better to fight than not.
Can’t wait to read more of her works. 

Here are some of my favorite quotes : 

« We know so much about trauma but so little about how to heal it. » p. 9

« Are you an anti-SJW/alt-fighter trying to use this as fodder for your masturbatory Reddit thread? » p. 18 

« Freedom is not abuse. Freedom is never abuse. » p.31

« Is it more important to you for your child to have an easy, « normal », life or a fulfilling, liberated one? » p. 105

« Safe and free are not the same thing // living and alive are not the same thing » p.153

elleayegee's review

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5.0

Another book for the trans rights readathon. 
I love this collection of poems and essays. I have annotated so much of this book and it makes me want to pick up any of the author’s work immediately. 

nicofox's review

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challenging reflective medium-paced

3.75

endemictoearth's review

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5.0

velvetyaverage's review

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emotional hopeful informative reflective fast-paced

3.75

corijroberts's review against another edition

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dark emotional informative medium-paced

3.5

Although I enjoyed this book, it felt disjointed overall. It’s a collection of essays, so that makes some sense, but I thought a lot of the ideas the author presented were contradictory or could’ve had more nuance. It was clear these essays were written at different times as her opinions evolved.

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5.0

lsparrow's review against another edition

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5.0

I love this book of essays and poems and feel i will be coming back to it again and again.
thinking about ideas of community, chosen family, consent, gender euphoria... so wise and so eloquent.

aelzz93's review

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3.5