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Moderate: Cancer, Death, Sexual content
Graphic: Cancer, Death, Grief, Car accident, Death of parent, Classism
This book reminded me a lot of Me Before You. Ella and Jamie are charming, their banter is off the charts, and it's your classic casual to serious relationship - but with a few more twists and turns. Filled with literary magic taking place on the campus of Oxford I found this book charming and the ending to be quite lovely.
A good reminder to live your life as it happens instead of planning because you can never plan what will happen.
Moderate: Cancer, Death
Minor: Death of parent
Minor: Death, Terminal illness
What I loved:
All the poetry references and literature academia vibes were great — I liked that aspect of the book a lot.
What I feel conflicted about :
- a family dealing with their son slowly but surely dying of cancer is absolutely a central theme of this book. This character is the male romantic lead so that’s also a central part of the romantic relationship. Not a fun, light romp. I didn’t know this going in.
- I actually don’t feel like I ever got terribly invested in their relationship.
What was done really well:
The pacing of how to fast-forward through big sections of time and tell the story of what went on during that time was done really well.
- I appreciated how the book ended. For all that Jamie’s still dying, it still felt like a happy, hopeful ending, which is impressive.
- this book genuinely made me think a lot about the different emotional ways to experience and work through dying and losing loved ones. Hence all the crying, but it was a more thought-inspiring book than I expected.
Graphic: Cancer, Child death, Death
Moderate: Death of parent
Graphic: Cancer, Terminal illness
Moderate: Death, Car accident
Graphic: Cancer, Death, Terminal illness, Grief
Moderate: Car accident
Minor: Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Pregnancy
This novel was a delectable treat of funny, heartbreaking and clichéd. The last hour of the novel packing a punch.
Loved the poetry scattered throughout, as well as the relationship James' parents shared.
Graphic: Death, Terminal illness, Death of parent
After reading (and adoring) Thank You for Listening, I picked this up with excitement, wanting to delve into the author's work even more. However, where TYFL brought immense amounts of joy and hope, My Oxford Year was really quite sad and frustrating.
The beginning was really enjoyable! I loved Ella's somewhat chaotic introduction to Oxford and the lifestyle there. Her rag-tag group of friends was fantastic and even the start of her "relationship" with Jamie was filled with humor, awkward moments, and sweetness. Around the halfway point, however, everything took a depressing nosedive.
It all left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth. What could have been a really creative and cute romcom turned into something melancholy and heavy. I walked away from it feeling drained rather than refreshed, which is not what I prefer after reading this kind of book. Definitely not my ideal style, unfortunately.
Graphic: Death, Terminal illness, Grief, Death of parent
Moderate: Toxic relationship, Classism
Minor: Sexual content, Car accident
This was one of the main books I wanted to read for my romance novel arc, I'm really glad I was able to make time for it
A little disclaimer though:
I think one of the main reasons I enjoyed this book a lot more than the average StoryGraph user is because I hold some of the themes & settings to a personal level. I'm literally in love with a man who graduated from Oxford, and uses all the cute British lingo like "cheers" (god, I love that). Academia is a huge part of my life, and is a big reason as to why I liked this book (same goes for The Love Hypothesis -- would totally recommend that book too).
Ella and Jamie are absolutely great characters. I loved their dynamic, they had an adorable relationship. However, midway through the book, I did find that their feelings were hard to understand. It seemed to me that Ella claimed to feel one way, but then she acted and talked like she felt the opposite way. I don't know if it's because the writing was hard to keep up with, or if I just didn't fully understand Ella's character. I'm just going to assume the latter.
Confusion aside, the rest of this book was glorious. Can I also say, hello? Oxford? Perfect setting for studious people. I absolutely LOVED hearing about Ella's experiences at Oxford and her time in the UK. I'm jealous.
The ending surprised me.
Graphic: Cancer, Terminal illness
Moderate: Death, Sexual content, Death of parent