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Ein wenig Leben by Hanya Yanagihara

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challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

It is hard to rate this book from 1–5. Because I get the hype, I get the following, and I honor the unofficial title of "the most devastating book of the past decade." (I don't actually know if anyone calls it, but the bookworm community online certainly reacts to it in this way)

But at the same time, it gets so dark and in so. much. detail. Does the writing deserve above my rating, five stars even? Yes. But is it a book I'd ever recommend to anyone? No. It's like recommending Requiem for A Dream—it's well done, but you'd be a total asshole to the other person by telling them to read/watch it.

I'm not a wuss when it comes to sad stories. I love them. I'm on a constant hunt for the next devastating book, movie, or TV show. But in A Little Life, I not only met my match, I was absolutely destroyed. Even I had to at one point say: "Enough. You've made your point that things are awful and hopeless. Move on." It's not difficult to finish because it's boring (it's not), it's soul-crushing. And in a sadistic way that often feels like it wasn't necessary.

So, read at your own discretion.

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This book was extremely well written but also highly distressing to read. I recommend checking the trigger warnings before starting to read this. I put off reading it for a long time because I had heard about how sad it is. The novel is very long and detailed. The narrative jumps back and forward in time. The characters were created in such exquisite detail. The hope, love, and kindness with which the various friends supported the protagonist throughout his life was expressed so beautifully. However the novel is highly distressing throughout and it has left me feeling exhausted. I don’t think I will ever forget it. 

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This book is un-put-down-able, for which it gets one star. But then you finish it and put it down, and think, ‘what the fuck did I just read?’ Someone check Yanagihara’s basement. 

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Let me start off by listing what's wrong with this book, because nothing will ever be able to excuse its mistakes.

- it's racist (not just according to the characters or to set the tone for the time period... it's weird writing about the black vs. white struggle as an Asian woman who has done no research on the subject....)
- they measure success by very classist metrics
-  All it seems to protray is that life=suffering and then you die (hopefully sooner rather than later)
- its portrayal of gay men is so, so bad that they should've just not
- there is no point. Authors purpose?? Certainly not for pleasure. Or education or enjoyment or advertisement. 
- it romanticizes abuse and trauma and self harm and suffering. This book is just one love letter to suffering. It even teaches you how to do it, and goes into excessively gruesome detail for far too long for it to just be inform a reader by utilizing shock value... it often fetishizes it, interlacing these scenes with sexual desire and/or eroticism 
- it's repetitive. Like Jesus christ 400 pages is just recounting of Jude's past. This book didn't need to be 814 pages. 
- because of how long and repetitive it is i was bored for a little. Like I'd never thought I'd get so bored reading incredibly detailed and gross accounts of abuse. But I did. I strolled through it, barely batting an eye, yawning.

infuriating, pointless, abusive, disrespectful, abhorrent, divisive, weaponized, trash

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Este libro me dejó sin habla. Incluso ahora aun después de haberlo terminado sigo sin poder encontrar las palabras para describir todo lo que me ha hecho sentir. Al principio pensaba que podría prever los acontecimientos pero fue llegar a poco más de la mitad y ahí fue cuando todo cayó de golpe. 

Los personajes sin duda son realistas, tienen sus fallos y carencias como cualquier persona real y te ves inmersa en sus vidas, en sus historias, en ocasiones enfadándote con ellos pero como última instancia deseando que les vaya bien. El cast principal (cuatro amigos de la universidad) es entrañable, enfocándose sobre todo en uno de ellos, que acaba siendo punto focal de todo.

En cuanto a la narrativa (sin entrar en muchos detalles) se cuenta cómo estos amigos superan dificultades varias (personales, laborales, académicas...) y poco a poco van encaminado sus propias vidas en un camino no siempre tan concreto.

He de destacar que no es una novela para espíritus frágiles; los temas que llega a abordar son serios, desagradables, hasta el punto de ser horrorizantes. Parte del porqué es un libro que es lento de leer es por las dificultades emocionales que puede llegar a despertar en el lector. Así que recomendaría leerla teniendo en cuenta todos los puntos mencionados anteriormente.

Para concluír la reseña, sólo puedo decir que es una historia que deja huella. Es compleja y su impacto en los lectores también es difícil de expresar. A pesar de que a grandes rasgos sea una novela con cierto sabor amargo creo que merece ser leída, ser contada, al menos ser recordada.

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Wish this book didn't make me wish for his death every minute of reading this.... This is not a compliment. This aspect of this book ruined it potential.

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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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