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heathergeorge's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Death, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Violence, Grief, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
emmapaigereads's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Drug use, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Grief, Gaslighting, and Alcohol
whittaker's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
I don't think this is a book to be read by everyone, and especially not by people who may miss nuance, or who may romanticise it - I'm sure if I was very young when I read this I might've missed the gaslighting and grooming. I also think with the graphic descriptions this book would be incredibly difficult for a grooming or rape victim to read. But that isn't to say that this book hasn't stuck with me, changed me somewhat.
Graphic: Addiction, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Violence, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Death of parent
christine_beatrice's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, and Sexual harassment
maiahhtratchh's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Stalking, Gaslighting, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Suicide, and Medical content
Minor: Animal death and Death of parent
jordanleigh321's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, and Abandonment
evalotteli's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Suicide, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal death, Death, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Sexual content, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Animal cruelty, Drug use, and Vomit
amnahahmad's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Violence, Vomit, Stalking, Gaslighting, and Sexual harassment
molly_hn's review
5.0
This book is a complex portrayal of trauma, child sexual abuse, and it’s responses to it. We see how memory formation is so impacted and shaped by her abuser and how shame creeps into the scene of her own sexual identity, the subtlety of being told one is but a mirror to the other. It feels wrong to rate a book about such a controversial topic and an unflinchingly complicated depiction of grooming and coercion. Coercion is examined from the perspective of the subject of that treatment, a subject who cannot see herself so (‘There are things he needs to believe in order to live with himself, and it would be cruel for me to label these as lies’)… it feels wrong to rate a book about that so highly. It is controversial. It is triggering. It is really difficult to read. The words are unflinching but the read is a flinching one. While the story is not my own, Vanessa resonated with me and my experiences deeply. I could see elements of me in what was explored. And for that resonance alone, I think Russell deserves all the stars.
Projective identification is so stark within the dynamics and is captured at its very essence. The dependence feels heart wrenching. Our own guts twist and turn as we feel the stone of dread on behalf of Vanessa. I wanted to save her. And I realised that I have rarely held that desire for myself. Save myself.
There is a subtle depiction of transgenerational aspects of trauma and attachment style. We see how the pride in ‘knowing how to protect her, myself, everyone at once’ creates extreme vulnerability. What we prize as good principles to foster, can often be our downfall if held too rigidly. The interweaving of mum into the novel is just… it’s subtle, realistic, beautiful and unblaming. The novel does not hesitate to draw upon the treatment of trauma survivors more generally in our ‘informed’ society, where the responsibility to speak out is often too harshly placed at the feet of those who have endured. The morality tightrope of judgement in this arena is a fierce one and the absence of compassion, but the beginning of a bridge towards it, is captured by Russel. Words can be weapons and language so often, as observed by Vannessa in her reading of Titus Andronicus, can so often fail in the face of horror, violence and human-to-human harm, particularly when the harm is ‘hidden’ and internalised.
I am fearful that my own words here are not doing justice to the work that is this book. As I said, for the resonance in my personal psyche alone, Russell deserves all the stars.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Grief, Abandonment, and Alcohol
martzi's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Animal death, Child abuse, Drug use, Fatphobia, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail