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metaphorsandmisc's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders, Gaslighting, Child abuse, Bullying, Mental illness, Kidnapping, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, and Child death
Moderate: Sexual assault, Drug abuse, Drug use, and Violence
Minor: Car accident, Suicide, and Vomit
sophievansickle's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Confinement and Kidnapping
Moderate: Bullying, Murder, Drug use, Gaslighting, and Suicide
Minor: Sexual assault
bimenace's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, Child abuse, Cursing, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, Kidnapping, Bullying, Grief, Dysphoria, Domestic abuse, Toxic friendship, Suicide, Confinement, Suicidal thoughts, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Panic attacks/disorders, and Mental illness
Moderate: Classism, Sexual assault, Drug abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Fire/Fire injury, Child death, Death, Violence, Vomit, Hate crime, Murder, Death of parent, and Drug use
Minor: Gun violence
avidreaderandgeekgirl's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Blood, Car accident, Child abuse, Drug use, Confinement, Injury/Injury detail, Kidnapping, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Bullying
Moderate: Death and Suicide
Minor: Child death, Murder, and Sexual assault
betweentheshelves's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Now trapped in a cellar, Sayers has to go along with everything his kidnapper says. If he doesn't, things could end up even worse for him. But as Sayers pretends to be someone else in order to survive, the lines between imagination and reality start to blur. Sayers is no longer sure who he really is. And if he's ever going to get out of the dark room.
Thanks to NetGalley, Robin Roe, and HarperTeen for an advanced copy of Dark Room Etiquette to review! It's the perfect time of year for this kind of dark, gritty story with a hint of hope. Roe's writing in this hooks you from the beginning; once you pick up the book, it's difficult to put it down.
The first thing that hooks you is the characters. While Sayers is not the most likeable person at the beginning of the book, that changes. A lot of this story is about trauma. How trauma changes you, how we process trauma, how there's hope at the end of the journey. This isn't just a book about Sayers's kidnapping; it's also about the healing. It's a heavy book to read, but all of the emotions and the changes Sayers goes through feel grounded in reality.
Outside of Sayers, there are a lot of other well rounded characters as well. After his kidnapping, Sayers gets to see the real side to some of his friends. Which allows him to truly see himself as well. If you're a fan of mostly character driven stories, with a little bit of plot, you'll definitely love this aspect of the story.
All in all, this is a harrowing book about survival. About overcoming trauma. Check the trigger warnings before reading, but if you're in the right place mentally, I highly recommend it!
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This book is dark, tense, but also full of hope. Stay tuned for a full review!
Graphic: Mental illness, Bullying, Child abuse, and Kidnapping
Moderate: Suicide
Minor: Child death
sarasreadingnook's review
4.5
When I sat down to start this book, I knew a couple of things: this is about a sixteen-year-old kidnapped boy told that his former life was all a lie and that he needed to adapt to his new environment to survive. I thought I came prepared for the emotions I would feel along this journey - I was not.
First, the book is unsettling. Even before the kidnapping, I felt uneasy due to conflicting emotions. Sayers is a highly complex character; you see his weakness, strengths, and humanity. Presented as a teenager from an incredibly wealthy background, I appreciated how his privilege impacts his behaviour at school and with his family and friends.
Secondly, Sayers has to adapt to survive, and how he does so impacted me immensely. As the plot progressed, I could appreciate how a knowledge base and background research would be essential to write this story. The book presented some theories in psychology that impacted Sayers in the story, some he recalls later on.
Third, many characters were multi-dimensional - you could see a clear contrast between their personalities at the beginning and end of the book. In fact, some characters were almost unrecognizable by the end and others, such as Garrett, were static. Sayers' personality experienced many changes; some of the directions his mind went brought me to tears.
Finally, I like that this was a story not just of the event - the kidnapping, but responses to trauma and the aftermath. Learning to cope in an abusive environment was Sayers' key to survival. Sadly, the intense trauma he faced hindered him in some very unexpected and heartbreaking ways. At several points, I desperately wanted to plead with Sayers on what he should do - I can imagine other readers having the same response.
Please review the content warnings before reading this book. This book is such a memorable, emotional, and intense read. It is my first time reading the author's works and I look forward to reading many more!
Thank you to NetGalley, Robin Roe, and HarperTeen for providing this review copy. All opinions are my own.
Graphic: Kidnapping, Mental illness, Child abuse, and Bullying
Moderate: Suicide
Minor: Child death