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The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants by Ann Brashares

8 reviews

adventurous lighthearted relaxing fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

I can't say there was anything remarkably special about the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants but there wasn't anything glaringly terrible either. It was enjoyable, the characters were developed and unique, and the structure—one scene per girl then on to the next—helped keep the story moving in a way I haven't seen in too many books lately. There is such a trend toward lengthy, complicated scenes that draw out over 10-15 pages so it was nice to breeze through scenes that only spanned a page or two, three at most.

It truly was the simplicity and ease of this story that I enjoyed. I will definitely dig into the second book, at some point.

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emotional hopeful lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This book was such a great book, it really made me realize that being a reader is worth it. It wasn't a particularly sad or funny book but it's essence was just pure "girlhood." It was very relatable and the characters were all pretty loveable (except at one part when I was really frustrated with Lena). It's a quick read and great to get out of slumps (which I desperately needed). 

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adventurous emotional funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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adventurous challenging emotional lighthearted reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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hopeful fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I have a lot of thoughts on this book. I saw this in the library recognized the title and checked it out.

Firstly this is a book realeased in 2001 and it definitely hasn't aged well. Literally the first page has casual racism against Koreans. I also saw from another user saying the author shouldn't write characters of color and that she relied on stereotypes. I'm white so I'm no authority on what is and isn't racist but Carmen the only main character of color is Latina and chiefly defined by her temper. It feels a little bit like the "spitfire" trope of Latina women.

But the worst part of this book and the section that's aged the worse is Bridget's whole section. Basically Bridget is 15 and at her soccer camp she begins a flirtation with one of her coaches Eric who is 19. Aside from the fact one person in this relationship is an adult and the other is a minor (there's a huge maturity gap between 15 and 19) one is in a position of power over the other. I was grossed out reading about their entire relationship. And it gets even worse because they end up sleeping with each other and to give some small credit Brashares does depict it as a traumatic experience for Bridget. But I don't think it really villainizes Eric like it should. His whole romantic final speech to Bridget is especially gross and I hated reading it. And I know from The Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants wiki that she and Eric are an Endgame couple. Even in 2001 I feel this was very irresponsible for Brashares to do. She'd know that the main audience for this book would be girls the main characters age or even younger and she's telling them than an adult being sexually interested in them is romantic and not creepy.

I guess as this book tells four different simultaneous stories I'll rank them from best to worst.

1. Carmen - Despite the possible stereotypes Carmen's character plays into, I like that they didn't portray her anger as unwarranted or unreasonable. My favorite part of the book was when Bailey says to Carmen "You're allowed to be angry". Her anger was entirely justified it's just that she didn't communicate it in the best way which is completely accurate. I remember being 15 and trying to drop subtle hints about my feelings to my parents which they completely missed. Her story is the most realistic and understandable.

Also this might just be another example of how the book hasn't aged well but I'm pretty sure a lot of people of color have been in Carmen's situation where a white family member invites you to there plantation wedding and doesn't see a problem with that.

2. Tibby - Tibby's story tugs at your heartstrings. But it didn't feel cloying or anything. Her and Bailey form a nice friendship together and it causes Tibby to look at life in a whole new way.

3. Lena - Lena's story was just sort of meh. I don't really believe her relationship with Kostos. They barely spoke to eachother so why is she in love with him. I get kids fall in love really easily but Lena's the one who's distrustful of boys. I don't see her falling in love with someone unless she knows them very well.

4. Bridget - Please send Eric to jail. Don't let him be around minors anymore.

I'm giving this book a lower rating not just because of the problematic aspects but because I didn't connect to the characters. I think the two are connected. When I had to read things like Bridget and Eric's relationship I had to detach myself emotionally as a defense mechanism. So when it switched back to stories I might have connected to like Carmen or Tibby's I couldn't easily reattach myself so I felt no connection to the characters.

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adventurous emotional funny lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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adventurous challenging reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I just recently revisited this series after buying the last book to accompany the rest in my book collection. Even though I've read it multiple times and know what's coming at each twist and turn, it still keeps me invested. Being able to come back to this book, and the sisterhood, felt like coming home.

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