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Nettle & Bone by T. Kingfisher

19 reviews

avialia's review against another edition

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adventurous dark medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.75

Well, marrying a prince is usually a dream. USUALLY.This book has one of those rare times where it is not a dream. It is rather a nightmare. And Marra, is going to help. The prince will be dead.
This book was just really clever and exidently written. It worked for keeping up the experince I had from reading the other books from this author.
I find the ideas really fun and intruqing. I felt exited and happy to turn almost all the pages. I did not use a long time reading this and I felt I just rushed threw it.
It is not 100% that I wish I could wipe my memory. But really close to it to be honest.

The worldbuilding from the very start was fun and intresting, as the other books I have read by him also are. I mean who does not want to know what happens futher when the mc is wanting to kill a prince. To help her sister. The explenations were not too dense and it all just flowed easily and effortless.
So yes I really enjoyed it.

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alexiconic's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional mysterious slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

adventurous, fairytale-esque, mysterious, and decidedly dark and mysterious. its everything a fairy tale would be: magical, with odd creatures that go on a quest, in a kingdom far away. but it’s also an adult upgrade, with mature heroes who have their own worries and fears and who have to deal with them to reach their goals, with a dark start to the story and enough cruelty to make a realistic setting. 

reading this book was like escaping into a fairytale all over again. i deeply loved it. 

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kimberlynann's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0


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helfire124's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark emotional funny inspiring mysterious sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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uranaishi's review

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adventurous dark emotional funny hopeful inspiring mysterious reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0


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fraeyalise's review

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challenging dark hopeful inspiring sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book was incredibly hard to read at the beginning, especially having a baby recently, and having a relatively traumatic pregnancy. 

It's so, so dark at the beginning. I almost put it down, I was in such horror and despair. 

But it does get better, and I am glad I kept going.
It is all okay in the end.

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tallulahlucy's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5


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lengelman's review

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adventurous dark medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? N/A
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0


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allorah's review

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adventurous dark emotional sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75


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_haggis_'s review against another edition

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adventurous dark funny hopeful lighthearted mysterious fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Without a doubt, one of the best books I've read in ages. 

One of the things I loved most was that Kingfisher/Vernon is so very generous to her characters - she treats them with such warmth. I don't mean that she gives them easy storylines (this is a story of overcoming abuse, of anger at injustice) but she's never snobby towards them, or cynical. She lets them be angry, and upset, and make the wrong decisions and have these wrong decisions impact others, yet she never leaves her readers in any doubt that they are good and are trying their hardest. I think there's a lot of empathy in the way she writes and that is such a rare thing to find. Everyone - from the cursechild, to the drowned, to the women who are too afraid to leave their situations, to the strategic queenmother, to the nuns, and the little old ladies, they're all treated with such dignity. This ultimately was why I loved the book so much.

No review should go without saying that feminism (if this is not anachronistic to use of a fantasy world) also lies at the heart of the story. A (thirty year old!!!) princess goes to rescue her sister from an abusive marriage, aided by a variety of odd characters she meets along the way - in particular two old women. I can't remember the last time I read a book with an old woman as the main character, certainly not two, and certainly not portrayed as powerful and kind and thoughtful and grumpy and lovable. The story is so much about women's relationships and friendships, of pregnancy and miscarriage and vulnerability. Of women used as political pawns and their wombs and bodies sacrificed, and the way women in media are either visible as beautiful and sexual objects (like a prince's wife) or fade invisibly to the background overlooked and unimportant to the story (like the old women and the nun and the "stupid" sister"). 

Pretty much every character is a woman - as I'm writing this review, I'm realising this more and more. There are so many women. So many different kinds of women. Nuns, Godmothers, grave-witches, women giving birth, abbesses, princesses, queens, middle-aged women on coaches who tell off rude men, kind women who give strangers food and help, the group stop to ask for directions and it's a frazzled mother who gives it to them, they stay at a boarding house owned by a woman and a little girl gives them advice. Just so many women. The story is built on the backs of women and I loved every second of it. 

(side note: I especially like that traditionally feminine things are NEVER mocked -- Marra loves knitting and embroidery and this helps them over and over again. The old witches wear dresses, and have large breasts and keep chickens, and this is normalised. Femininity is never degraded - and the characters are never made the lesser for it.)
 
It's an achingly important story and (importantly) never felt forced. This is crucial, I think, to the best stories and the most progressive. This story isn't centred around women for the thrill and activism but because women exist and their stories and pains exist and deserve to be told.  The character's dialogue -- even those moments where it spilled into self-awareness -- never felt cliche or jarring. The dust-wife's wry comment that 'old women never do well in fairytales' is funny, nuanced and a clever commentary, but it also felt natural.

 That was another thing I liked so much about the book, every character's reaction to any given situation felt natural. Sometimes they cried, sometimes they were frustrated, sometimes they wanted to give up, sometimes they bickered, sometimes they left and said foolish things and sometimes they focused on the wrong thing in the moment. 

The book is highly self-aware and this was refreshing too. It dealt with the tropes of fairytales - of evil fairy godmothers un-invited to christenings, of princes obsessed with princess' skin - and the narrative focuses on heroes and quests (queue the number of times Marra turns to think about the heroes she knew from stories and why the legends never tell of the waiting, of the planning, of not being taken seriously). Yet Kingfisher's writing never slid into the absurd or the coy gloating of satire - it still demanded to be taken ernestly and genuinely. 

Three more thoughts before I finish this essay:

1) I enjoyed the love side plot. Maybe other's don't, and that's fine, it's not for everyone. But crucially the love plot never superseded the rescue mission
I mean they don't even kiss
. Also, I think there's definitely a place for brilliant female heroes to fall in love and it not to detract from their empowerment (especially with kind, gentle, willing-to-kill-abusive-husbands-and-fathers sorts of men)

2) Laundry -- Kingfisher makes time to tell you that Agnes, in a few days of downtime, befriends a local woman and they do laundry together. I just love this, it's mundane, it's simple, it's domestic, it's relationships, it's highlighting women's work. Gah. Love it. 

3) A little note. The story is about Marra as much as it's about Fenris and Agnes and the chicken and the Dust-wife and all of them help at different points and all of them have struggles. They couldn't do it without each other and the only thing keeping them together is that they have heard that a woman is being abused and they want to change this. Oh, and Marra, Marra keeps them together. She isn't made out to be special, with incredible powers, or wit, or skills (more often than not she critically underestimates herself). But she loves so much, and she wants to help everyone she can, even if it is only a little kindness. And that I think is why she never comes across as an uninteresting audience double - she refuses to bow to the hardships of the world and remains stubbornly fierce for justice.

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