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breebree23's review against another edition
4.0
I enjoyed the writing and rawness of this book. It included so many different types of African women in the pages and I appreciated having access to their lives in this way. There was something in it for almost every type of women. I think I'd have liked a perspective that included trans women and disabled women.
girlunplugged's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
emotional
informative
inspiring
medium-paced
4.0
megansoetaert's review
emotional
fast-paced
4.25
Sekyiamah does an excellent job portraying the vastly different experiences of African and African Diaspora women in their journeys related to sex & sexuality. This book brings in so many different voices, representing different countries, generations, religions, and sexualities. I loved getting to read so many different womens’ stories.
Although I wish each woman’s story was longer, I understand that the book’s purpose was to highlight many different stories, not to dig deep into just a few.
Although I wish each woman’s story was longer, I understand that the book’s purpose was to highlight many different stories, not to dig deep into just a few.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual assault and Sexual content
africanbookaddict's review against another edition
5.0
I don’t have the words to review this exceptional (in a good and bad way) collection. While some chapters were written better than others (with regards to the flow of the story and editing), this collection of essays is necessary. Its the kind of collection that you just have to discuss with other readers. I just finished a virtual discussion with some readers and my heart feels full. I want to have another discussion when the US edition comes out - definitely!
Buy the book and READ it! And discuss it with your loved ones.
Buy the book and READ it! And discuss it with your loved ones.
monigamino's review against another edition
4.25
-"We achieve freedom when we let go of the weight of societal expectations, and when we find our people – those who love us, care for us, and hold us up when we start slipping.”
-“Many women lose all the privileges of a free woman when they get married and what they gain is nothing compared to what they lose.”
-"Sensuality and spirituality are two sides of the same coin and I wanted to be with a partner that I could learn the faith with, from a place of curiosity, and not oppression."
-"The fact that I'm still attracted to men is proof sexuality is not a choice."
-“Many women lose all the privileges of a free woman when they get married and what they gain is nothing compared to what they lose.”
-"Sensuality and spirituality are two sides of the same coin and I wanted to be with a partner that I could learn the faith with, from a place of curiosity, and not oppression."
-"The fact that I'm still attracted to men is proof sexuality is not a choice."
miss_creant's review
adventurous
challenging
dark
emotional
informative
reflective
sad
fast-paced
5.0
A very important book to read that shines a light in dark places. It was a collection of essays that honestly were hard to read at times due to the content. It was also healing to hear African women share their personal stories related to sex and how they dealt with trauma in their lives and overcame it or were still on their healing journey. This was thought provoking and insightful.
mayenk's review against another edition
adventurous
emotional
funny
informative
reflective
fast-paced
5.0
I loved it. I love the different stories, I like how none of the stories have a final ending, that these women's sex/romance/family lives are still ongoing. I like that the stories kinda show women from different economic backgrounds.