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Very intriguing, well written book. Pretty graphic but not for shock value. Caitlin writes about death and the things that she saw working in a crematory in a very matter of fact way that made it so interesting to learn about. Weaving in historical pieces on death practices in different cultures and throughout history was fascinating too. 

There was a pretty abrupt and random chapter with some, in my opinion, unnecessary fatphobic themes, but other than that I really enjoyed the process of reading this book and thinking about death myself. 

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I love memoirs, but I was pleasantly surprised by how the author interweaves the science, history, and culture of death with her personal experiences. Her writing resonates with my own anxieties about death and points me in a direction of what I might want, where to research, and potentially how to ask for it. Now I want a "good death" and hopefully will learn more in her next book (and/or her YouTube channel).

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4.25

  • really intriguing to read about people who do jobs that i likely would never do ? 
  • made some good points about how we treat death and the dead and how that interacts with race, class, and culture 
  • the subversion of calling upon indigenous groups' rituals as a way to humanize them instead of using it for shock value and othering them was great - brief but good insight to other cultures 
  • Doughty's voice and dedication towards more informed and hands-on funerals was strong too
  • death is scary and society reinforces this by constantly shrouding the idea in euphemisms. at the same time, there are services out there that further this notion of evasiveness and cloaking the truth of death.  so that when one finally faces it for the first time, they are shocked and unprepared, creating such a negative, unfulfilling, and regretful experience that they may subconsciously continue the cycle. 
  • sadly i went over my loan period that coincided with the end of my library's purchase period of the book so my other favourite parts are lost to the ether, enjoy this nibblet: 
 
the great achievements of humanity were born out of the deadlines imposed by death. he didn't seem to realize that the fire beneath his ass was mortality - the very thing he was attempting to defeat.


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4.5

It took me 5 hours and 43 minutes total to read this book. 
It was really good and I highly recommend all of Caitlin Doughty’s books and work online. It’s a great way to ease yourself into confronting your own mortality. It also is a good reminder to think about and talk to your loved ones about what you want done with your body when you die. 

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