3.97 AVERAGE


3.5 star. Includes perfect passages and irritating moments.
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This started out a 5 star read for me, the writing was luxurious and funny in a dry way. It made me think about small moments in my own life in a more poetic and poignant way. I appreciated the honesty, the focus on a mother's experience, and the critique of the mystical quality of how we approach pregnancy, birth, and caring for a baby. The parts about identity loss and change were very resonant.

At some point, the author lost me. It might be because I broke my rule and did some research on the author midway through the book, I'm not sure. I started to feel disconnected from the author, maybe I started to feel like she thought she was better than everyone else? The writing began to feel repetitive and too loaded with metaphor and simile.
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Bits of the author’s thoughts around becoming a mother with her newborn. I have a feeling that most of newly moms would have similar feelings except they don’t have the time/energy/talent to write them down as the author did. Thus I like this book for this particular reason. As a women in her late 20s with occasional thoughts about having a kid someday, when I read the book, half of the time I was wondering if I would feel similarly when having a child, another half of the time I was wondering if my mom had similar feelings when she had me.

Sometimes the chapters were too long and too detailed, I don’t blame her as she is indeed a writer with a more extended observation and desire for expression. I enjoyed the book.

A phenomenal account of vulnerability. One of the best memoirs on motherhood I’ve read. I had one frustration and that was the amount of times Cusk used ‘presently’ to start a sentence.. but that’s not worth pulling a star because it’s truly a fantastic read. It certainly reads like a thriller too, as it says on the cover.
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One of the best books I’ve ever read. Great writing and an important topic with a perspective that’s often overlooked.