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Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides

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chinomi's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional funny reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0


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ada_elisabeth's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative mysterious reflective relaxing sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

This book was just, like, five hundred pages of plot twists. Not one single bit of it went where I thought it was going to go, and I am completely fine with that.

Let's start out with some basics: This book is long. While it's not actually any longer than a usual book I would read, this book is also slow. It's a family saga that unwinds generation after generation of drama, heartbreak, and triumph. It follows Lefty and Desdemona, two Greek immigrants to the United States, and then their son, Milton, and his wife, Tessie, before switching over to their child, Cal, who is the protagonist and narrator of the story. Lefty and Desdemona's story started out very, very slowly, and I found myself wishing that it would end. The first hundred to two hundred pages of this book felt like exposition, but the very beginning part was especially slow and dull. Eugenides created a witty, charming narrator in Cal, but that wit and charisma doesn't come out until Cal's own part of the story.

On top of being a little dull, the beginning of this book is also somewhat concerning: Lefty mentions that he's not attracted to any of the girls in his village in Greece. When I read that, I was like, 'Oh, okay. He's gay. That's a little challenging for this time period, I'm sure, but I think he'll work it out.' But no. He's
ATTRACTED TO HIS SISTER!!! HIS SISTER! AND THEY GET MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN! AND THEN ONE OF THOSE KIDS MARRIES HIS OWN COUSIN!!! AND THEN THEY  HAVE KIDS!!!! THESE PEOPLE ARE MORE INBRED THAN THE GOSH DARN HABSBURGS!!!
Anyway, that was the first major plot twist, and honestly, it only went uphill from there. 

After Desdemona and Lefty, the story transitions to their son, Milt, and his wife, Tessie. The whole family moves out of the small house they're living in and into a house named Middlesex in a fancy Detroit neighborhood. Milt and Tessie's kids, Chapter Eleven and Cal, are shipped off to college and a fancy prep school respectively. (Milt owns a hot dog chain that allows him to do all of these costly things.) Lefty dies. Desdemona becomes bedridden with grief. Cal develops a crush on a girl at school, the Obscure Object. 

My favorite part of this book was the relationship between Cal and the Object. It was perfect. The Object was the opposite of Cal: Aloof, dramatic, emotional. The back of the book compares Cal to Holden Caulfield, but I think the Object is the real Holden of this story. She even has the wealthy but uninvolved parents and smoking addiction to match. I could read a whole book of Cal x the Object. 10/10 for that alone. 

After that the story gets a little more boring. Cal realizes that she's intersex and shares more qualities with a biological male than a biological female despite being raised as a girl. She's shipped off to New York so doctors can take notes on her complicated genetics. She runs away and begins to live as a boy before eventually coming back to Middlesex. The story concludes. 

Overall, one of my favorite aspects was how grown-up Cal narrates his entire life story with a sense of omniscience. It makes the story more interesting, and a lot funnier. (Side note: this was one of the funnier things I've read. I never actually laughed, but the writing was witty and humorous and I could definitely see other, more lighthearted people laughing at this.) I did really like the entire thing, but the Obscure Object was my favorite part, so just for her, this is getting a 4.75/5 instead of a 4. (Oh, also +.25 for Clementine Stark's kissing lessons lol.) 

HONORABLE MENTION PLOT TWISTS
1. That guy in the Islamic silk factory where Desdemona works actually being Jimmy Zizmo.
2. That girl (Rachel? Rebecca?) dying in the middle of the school play. 
3. Cal in Bob Presto's club in California. 
4. Milton's death.
5. Desdemona revealing that she and Lefty were siblings.
 

"Biology gives you a brain. Life turns it into a mind." 

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thursdd4y's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5


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esophagus18's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.5


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yakukiro's review against another edition

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challenging informative reflective slow-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated

3.75


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itsmelaurenc's review against another edition

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emotional informative inspiring reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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kibiiiariii's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75


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bells_shelves's review against another edition

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  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

WOW. This book has left me speechless. I almost DNF’ed this book around page 50-60, but then I was completely sucked in. The character writing is incredible, and they feel undeniably like real people. What a story. There were so many stories all wrapped up in one, and the way it was told was beautiful. This is a read I’ll never forget. There were so many beautiful sentences, the writing is impeccable. 

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aisabel's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75


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hunkydory's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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