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How We Named the Stars by Andrés N. Ordorica

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bibliomich's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

Andrés N. Ordorica begins the epilogue to his novel How We Named the Stars by explaining to the reader that it is not a memoir. This disclaimer stood out to me, not because it matters if the story is true or not, but because the writing feels so profoundly true to the human experience, that as a reader, I never even stopped to question if it might be fiction.

Ordorica writes with such viscerally emotional prose that even if you have never gone through the specific experience(s) of his protagonist, you can still deeply relate to the feelings attached to these moments. As I watched Daniel fall in love for the first time, I also felt those feelings of falling. Just as his heart was broken for the first time, my heart also broke. In addition to the central love story of the novel, Daniel is also navigating the triumphs and challenges of being a first-generation Latinx college student at a predominantly white university, exploring his identity as a young gay man, connecting with his family in México, and facing grief in the wake of unimaginable loss.

Ordorica writes with the slow, careful prose of a poet, and I highly recommend taking your time moving through this story. Also, please check the content warnings (included in the comments).

Thank you to NetGalley and Tin House for my advanced copy of this beautiful novel.

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dark emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced

4.25

This queer coming-of-age novel was so full of love, even if the overall tone was one of sadness. It really warmed my heart to know that the protagonist, Daniel, who is a young gay Mexican American, received so much support from his loved ones. Whether it was while he was trying to find his footing at an elite Northeast US university as a first-gen scholarship student, or in México where he reflected further on his identity and family history, he always had a support system brimming with love. I found it refreshing that Ordorica leaned into writing this novel from a place of tenderness as a way to frame Daniel’s journey of self-acceptance. One way this was shown was through Daniel’s friendship with his roommate, Sam, which became something more as time passed. I really appreciated seeing such gentle acts of care between these two young men, and my heart ached when it became clear that Sam wasn’t fully ready to accept this change in their friendship. A second form of tender love that moved me was Daniel’s relationship with his family, particularly his abuelo. It was wonderful to see how often Daniel’s family said “te amo” to him, to know that they would always be there for him. I think this particularly struck me because, as a queer person of color from an immigrant family like the protagonist, I feel that “I love you” is something many of us rarely hear, so it made me happy that Daniel’s life was filled with te amos.

Structurally, I found it effective that we not only got Daniel’s first-person perspective for this novel, but that it was done in a journal-like form that was being written to Sam (who was addressed as “you” throughout). I thought it really brought Daniel’s introspective personality to the forefront, allowing the reader to really understand what he’s going through. As a result, all the intimate moments that Daniel had (especially with Sam) were especially powerful and heartbreaking.

I did feel the ending was a little abrupt, but overall, this was a beautiful debut novel from Ordorica that made me long for more coming-of-age novels that centered care and gentle love for QTBIPOC.

Note: I would like to thank the publisher for sending me an ARC. 

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dark emotional hopeful medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Even though I just finished this book, I am already thinking about the next reread. There is such a wonderful mix of devastating, heartbreaking, and beautiful emotions that I feel as though I left a part of myself in this book.

HOW WE NAMED THE STARS by Andrés N. Ordorica tells the story of Daniel as he embarks on the new adventure of college with new friends, experiences, and his roommate Sam. Daniel is an extremely relatable character who struggles with feeling at home in college while dealing with a lot of struggles he’s internalized as a classic overthinker. He feels lost in all of the new experiences that college brings (a relatable experience for many of us) and is still trying to understand who he is in his queerness while navigating situations he’s never experienced before. His roommate Sam becomes an important person in his life. We follow Daniel throughout his first year away in college as he experiences wonderful beautiful things as well as incredible loss and grief.

What makes this book so unique, is while it is narrated in first person, the narrator, and main character Daniel is addressing Sam in a second person narration style using “you”. I haven’t come across many books utilizing second-person narration, so I was immediately drawn in. Ordorica weaves an incredible story with poetic prose and remarkable characters that I fell for instantly.

I don’t feel that my review truly captures just how magnificent the writing is here. Ordorica is simply amazing with his words, it is clear that he is an amazing poet because his words flow effortlessly off the page. His writing was so easy to follow but incredibly vivid and real. This story truly touched my soul.

As much as this story is about the beauty of first love and friendship there is also a heavy dose of grief, immense loss, and how we begin to heal. HOW WE NAMED THE STARS is an ode to love and honoring those who we have lost along with the ways we can move on while still keeping them in our thoughts. It’s worth it to talk about those we have lost and remember things about them in order to heal. 

Daniel is a character I wanted to hug many times throughout this book. He goes through so much and has some important epiphanies that are relatable to all. Growing up is hard but there is also beauty in the difficulty, and for anyone who has struggled with confidence, anxiety, overthinking, or being unsure of yourself or who you are PLEASE READ THIS BOOK. Be ready to cry and fall in love with the characters and this book.


Thank you to Andrés N. Ordorica for writing this book. I’ll be sure to read more from him in the future. Also thanks to NetGalley and Tin House for this e-ARC! #HowWeNamedTheStars #NetGalley

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