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The Butterfly Lampshade by Aimee Bender

jess_mango's review

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4.0

3.5 stars

The opening chapter of this book gripped me right away. In that chapter, 8-year old Francie's mother has a psychotic episode and is taken away. Francie is temporarily left in the care of her babysitter until transportation can be arranged to her aunt's house in California. While at the babysitter's place, Francie becomes enthralled by a lamp with a butterfly shade. Francie finds a dead butterfly exactly matching the ones from the lampshade floating in her cup of water and gulps it down before the sitter can spot it. And so begins Francie's story.

The story flits and floats backwarrds and forwards in time from current day when Francie is an adult with a thriving Ebay business to back when she was a child staying with the sitter and the times in between. Francie questions her own mental health while she still tries to unwind what happened in her childhood. The writing was lovely but for me there was almost too much floating that the story couldn't quite settle with me. I am a long time Aimee Bender fan so I am always thrilled to read anything by her. This was worth the read to me but isn't my favorite of her books.

Thank you to the publisher for the review copy!

bethanyybradshaw's review

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2.0

francie is taken away, at only 8, to live with her aunt and uncle after her mother is sent to the hospital due to a psychotic episode. years later, she recounts the strong memories that surface as a result of her life. she tries to make sense of the dead butterfly, beetle, and rose that appeared in her youth and have a constant hold on her today.

i don’t have too much to say other than that i was bored. the plot never really went anywhere and i was actually confused a bit of the time. i appreciated what the author was trying to do but it just didn’t work for me. wouldn’t reread and likely wouldn’t recommend.

tj_k's review

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dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

giard's review

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It was too mentally disturbing. 

m_elissa_m's review against another edition

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dark emotional mysterious reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

sekulig's review

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emotional mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

arieldemaio's review

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Hated that I didn't finish an Aimee Bender book, but this one didn't grab me and I was working on a reading deadline for another book. I'll return to it one day.

opportune's review

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emotional mysterious reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

hannahsuemiller's review

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5.0

4.5 stars- a beautifully written examination of a broken relationship between mother and daughter, mental illness, and the memories that hold more weight than we could ever imagine

viveelan's review

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medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.0

This was an odd little book. I didn't love it but I didn't dislike it either. I'm not quite sure of the point of the book other than that most people have odd, little idiosyncrasies and dysfunctions. Francie's mom suffered from mental illness and Francie had to go live with her aunt, uncle and newborn cousin. 
I understand how trauma affects people but as a child she said and did some pretty weird and mean things. Strange, unexplained things happened directly after her mother entered the hospital. 
I'm not sure about it. Aunt Minn, Uncle Stan and Vicky were likeable characters, Francis was quite odd, but fairly benign.