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Graphic: Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage
Moderate: Death, Blood, Car accident
Minor: Self harm, Medical content, Pregnancy
Graphic: Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Grief, Pregnancy
Moderate: Sexual content, Medical content, Medical trauma
Minor: Self harm
Graphic: Infertility, Infidelity, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Grief
Graphic: Infertility, Medical content
Quinn and Graham meet under noteworthy circumstances. "Then" chapters take readers past that initial meeting into their courtship and eventual marriage.
"Now" chapters take us to where they end up seven years later, a marriage between two people who love each other deeply but are drawn apart by the heartache of infertility.
There will be a lot of triggers here for some. Fans of Hoover's writing will know to expect her soul-wrenching writing to take us through all the feels - the good, the bad, and the awful.
Recommended!
Graphic: Infertility
Moderate: Infidelity, Miscarriage, Sexual content, Medical content
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This is my second CoHo book and at this point I'm convinced I will love every single one she's written. One of my fears for my own relationship is the possibility that if my partner and I decide we do want kids, that I wouldn't be able to have them. I know that we would likely be okay if I can't, but the fear is still there. This book is hard to read, but not as hard as It Ends With Us (iykyk). It's beautifully written, and has a beautiful ending. I know a lot of people don't like this book as much as her others, but I can't imagine why. Maybe because this is a harsh reality for a lot of AFAB people. But this book, along with her others, is clearly impactful.
Graphic: Infertility
Moderate: Miscarriage, Medical trauma
Minor: Medical content
Graphic: Infertility, Miscarriage, Pregnancy
Moderate: Infidelity, Sexual content
Minor: Medical content, Medical trauma, Car accident
Honestly didn’t know what to expect when I started reading this. Apart from a quotable quote I found in booktok, I have no idea what this book was about or who the author is. All Your Perfects is not a book of about a perfect marriage. Contrary to its title, it’s an emotionally messy read about a married couple giving what’s left of them to put the broken pieces of their marriage together. Midway, I thought to myself, ‘it’s like I don’t want to get married at all!’, lol.
Throughout the book, the author presents the reality of some married couples go through—from complicated family ties, third party issues, and dealing with one another and life together. Colleen Hoover wrote the chapters as alternating perspectives of the ‘Then’ and ‘Now. It gave me the right amount of the backstory of the budding and young romance of the couple, to what their marriage has become. I enjoyed the blissful flashbacks, and how the struggling couple cling on to the love and commitment they had in the past. Colleen definitely DID NOT sugarcoat marriage in this one.
I admire how bare and unrefined Quinn’s character is, she’s not at all the typical trophy housewife. Throughout the book, her anger, frustration, and emotions were fully exposed and written. Graham, on the other hand, is an ideal man of patience, deep devotion to his wife, and understanding. But their marriage strips off their facade, slowly uncovering the real condition of their marriage, in which they are forced to face and finally deal with.
My takeaway: Committing to a person is committing to their wholeness and brokenness. Who they were then, who they are now, and who they’ll become. Real love is the capacity to love the unlovable, not in a compromising way, but because out of love you see the person far beyond their unlikeable traits. Not as a record of their past, nor the idea of the person you painted in your head. To love and accept a person as who they are now, means to also be prepared to love the unlovable in them. Loving might be easy, but making a relationship work requires more than love, it needs mutual effort and commitment (awwww!).
Marrying someone as they are is also marrying the person who they will become.
I would recommend this read for readers seeking for character-driven stories. Quinn and Graham really served to be lovable characters who have their fair share of imperfections, but eventually makes an effort to be better for the other. However, I gave this a 4/5 rating because the ‘resolution’ part felt a bit rushed. Overall, it’s a great read (I wouldn’t recommend it for a Valentine’s day read tho!).
Graphic: Infertility, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Pregnancy
Moderate: Infidelity, Medical content
Minor: Miscarriage
Graphic: Infertility, Miscarriage
Moderate: Infidelity, Medical content
Graphic: Infertility, Infidelity
Moderate: Miscarriage, Medical content