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Strong Female Character by Fern Brady

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective tense medium-paced

3.75


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dark emotional informative reflective slow-paced

3.5


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challenging dark emotional funny medium-paced

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emotional informative inspiring medium-paced

5.0


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challenging dark emotional informative reflective fast-paced

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lucyroberts's review

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dark emotional informative inspiring medium-paced

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2.75

This is a memoir about a very angry woman, who unconsciously exhibits immense internalised misogyny and biphobia whilst claiming that her actions are beyond her control because of her autism. I appreciated the honesty, enjoyed her writing style immensely, and connected with the strong rage she often felt. However, her hatred of those around her, and her often violent actioning of this hatred, being tied almost entirely to her autism was a hard pill to swallow. There are many autistic women who might feel similar, but also many who don’t feel the same vitriolic hatred of others that Fern does. I hope that readers understand that her violence is an expression of her experiences/other mental illnesses worsened by her autism, and not that autism makes women hateful, mean bullies and physically aggressive like this book implies… 

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4.0

I can’t say I enjoyed the book, even though I preordered the paperback through my love of Fern and her openness about her autism in interviews, but it was interesting and informative about autism. I’m self diagnosed (my father was diagnosed late in life and I have a lot in common with him) and this both confirmed my diagnosis and informed me of a wealth of things which I didn’t realise were autistic but I’d been doing all my life: clawing, planning conversations, replaying scenarios, hating being touched, loud noises, over enthusiasm for my passions, etc. I read it as a medical encyclopaedia with an endearing protagonist. She’s lead an eventful life for sure, and I’m glad the book could end on a slightly hopeful, inspiring note but something I’d already concluded myself. It’s nice to have confirmation, especially from someone who seems to have been through more extremes than me to get there.

At times, reading the book was difficult. I felt Fern was being punished a lot and unnecessarily, and how it was described lacked the humorous twists that could have made the book more entertaining, but I think then we wouldn’t have taken it seriously. The gaping hole in society and the medical support available to people with autism, especially adults, especially women, is glaring and ridiculous. The book felt gloomy and depressing in a very personal, private way that will be familiar to other autistics. Strangely, it gave me comfort for that very reason.

I applaud Fern for writing this. Having only discovered her after her appearance on Taskmaster, it’s strangely fitting that the story ends there, like catching up with a new friend. She’s so brave and inspiring, and I want her to know that she has succeeded. I feel better for knowing what she has been through, I feel heard, she has pushed society on to understanding a little bit more (perhaps a big bit).

I wish 8 was better at expressing my feelings for this…. But you know, autistic!

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