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The Pairing by Casey McQuiston

roygbiv_books's review

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4.0

Be sure to have good wine and a fruit and cheeseboard close by!

This story follows ex-partners Kit and Theo as they unexpectedly find they have separately booked the same food and wine tour. We follow the pair around to several stops throughout France, Spain, and Italy as they eat fine food paired with wines from each region. As they both struggle with coming to terms with how they feel about themselves and well as the other, they place a little bet on who can make the most ‘connections’ throughout the trip. The two find their way back to being friends but eventually are faced with the realization that they will have to address their sudden break up and the ways they have changed during their time apart. Will they be able to maintain their friendship outside of the dream European tour? Is it possible they still have more than friendship between them?

Casey McQuiston pours an incredible amount of knowledge and description into the food and wines throughout the book. I was transported to each stop along the tour through the exceptionally vivid words they use. It was truly an experience within the pages of this book. Along with the beautifully crafted settings and tastings, McQuiston tackles the subject of gender and sexuality in a wonderfully creative way. They use the dual POV aspect of this book to really help the reader understand each of the characters’ own understanding of their gender and sexuality. This book will leave you hungry, horny, and hurriedly booking a European food and wine tour.

rubyslayer's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional lighthearted

4.75

mxmads's review

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emotional funny medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A glorious, indulgent romance. The first time I've seen a NB main character in a romance and it was so well done. Incredibly, joyfully queer. Favourite romance of 2024, from someone who's reading a LOT of romance this year!

olsbear's review

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4.0

Thanks to NetGalley for the arc!

Review tbc

watershine's review

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emotional funny medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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jenhurst's review

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4.0

This is soo cute

readingchristine's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.75

This book is one of my most anticipated releases this year, and it did not disappoint!!! I absolutely loved this book and found myself savoring every moment. 

We meet Kit and Theo as they've just broken up right before their planned European vacation. Fast forward to four years later and they end up on the same vacation together. We get to see how intense it can be to run into an ex  and how much they both still care about one another. To prove to themselves they can still be friends they start a friendly competition to see who can hook up with the most people while both secretly long for each other. 

I love that we got the first half of the book from Theo's perspective and the second half from Kits. I thought the story telling weaved together so smoothly. You really get to understand how both characters feel and why they make the decisions they make. The way you get to see how Theo and Kit grew in their time apart and how it makes them even better for each other now is magically done. I love that these characters got to grow into themselves in their time apart and then continue to grow with each other. 

If you love a second chance romance and LGBTQIA+ reads this book if definitely one I would recommend you pick up. I am still smiling in the joy of it. 

justacatandabook's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional informative lighthearted reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.25

I love Casey McQuiston, but I have to admit that THE PAIRING was not for me. Others will enjoy it more, so take my review as such. Theo and Kit are childhood best friends and former lovers. After a terrible fight and subsequent breakup on the way to vacation in Europe, they have each forged their own lives: Theo in the U.S.; Kit in Paris. But they encounter one another four years later... using the non-refundable trip voucher for the European tour they were about to take when they split.

There's a lot of great things about THE PAIRING, particularly it's bisexual characters and the book's frank look at sexuality, queer love, gender norms, and gender fluidity. There's also just so much damn description. If you want endless talk about food and wine and the European countryside, you'll love THE PAIRING. If you are looking for some actual plot or forward momentum, you're less in luck.

I found myself skimming over more talk of wine pairings, as I just could.not.take.it.anymore. I get that there was a whole "vibe" for this story, but it was not one I enjoyed. I wanted to hear more about Theo and Kit, their past, and see them interacting in the present.

The two make a pact to see who can sleep with the most people on the trip, while ignoring their own chemistry. It takes a while to even get to this point, with so much lead up (have I mentioned the wine?). All the description makes it difficult to care for Kit and Theo as a couple, especially since most of their romance occurs before this story starts. Many of the side characters have little depth, serving just to act as a foil in the one night stand competition, and everyone seems young and ready to eat and party. There's no differentiation or room for anything else. A side plot with Theo's family being wealthy and famous seems unnecessary and irritating.

Theo and Kit's sexual tension and escapades are fun, albeit somewhat repetitive, much like the endless food and wine. I preferred the focus on gender positivity and Theo feeling comfortable in their body. In the end, though, I never found myself wanting to read this book, and often flipped rapidly through scenes. Hopefully others more into the European bacchanal style will enjoy it. 

I received a copy of this book from Netgalley and St. Martin's Griffin in return for an unbiased review. 

owls_rainbow's review

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0


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femmegemini's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0