Reviews with content warning for Racism - All You Can Ever Know

Reviews tagging 'Racism'

All You Can Ever Know by Nicole Chung

17 reviews

maviemerveilleuse's review against another edition

Go to review page

emotional reflective slow-paced

3.5

Content Warnings

aberdonian67's review against another edition

Go to review page

challenging emotional reflective slow-paced

3.25

Content Warnings

thebakerbookworm's review against another edition

Go to review page

challenging emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

5.0

"Today, when I’m asked, I often say that I no longer consider adoption—individual adoptions, or adoption as a practice—in terms of right or wrong. I urge people to go into it with their eyes open, recognizing how complex it truly is; I encourage adopted people to tell their stories, our stories, and let no one else define these experiences for us."

I really loved this emotional and honest memoir. Interspersed with flashbacks, the author takes us through her journey of deciding to find and then finding her biological family, and all the conflicting emotions that come with that. Nothing is sugarcoated, and nothing is simplified. As the quote above says, adoption is different for everyone, and I love the idea of not thinking of it in terms of right or wrong. Adoption is too complex to be looked at in black and white.

This book was a quick read, but it definitely still packs an emotional punch. Not only is adoption explored, but as the author was Korean growing up in a mostly White town, she tackles issues of racism as well, and the added stress and complexities of being Korean and having to explain the racism you're facing to your White parents. I was constantly impressed by the grace the author showed in her writing, while still being honest and not holding back.

This was my book club's pick of the month, and we had a lively discussion about it. The relationship between the author and Cindy was a highlight for all of us. <3

Content Warnings