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Rainbow Milk by Paul Mendez

26 reviews

arlaubscher's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Abandonment, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Xenophobia, Terminal illness, Medical trauma, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Addiction, Alcohol, Car accident, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Mental illness, Rape, Religious bigotry, Sexual violence, Racial slurs, Classism, Colonisation, Homophobia, Racism, and Cursing

Moderate: Cancer, Death of parent, Injury/Injury detail, Alcoholism, Body horror, Chronic illness, Panic attacks/disorders, and Misogyny

Minor: Miscarriage and Adult/minor relationship

teddie_valetine98's review against another edition

emotional slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

This is one of those books everyone needs to read!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Racism, Homophobia, Sexual content, Religious bigotry, and Outing

Moderate: Sexism and Sexual assault

Minor: Miscarriage and Racial slurs

There are scenes that are graphic of sex work due to Jesse’s job

bookshelfhannah's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Car accident, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Classism, Outing, Racial slurs, Racism, Drug use, Hate crime, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Religious bigotry, Homophobia, Alcohol, Bullying, and Drug abuse

sallygalula's review against another edition

challenging dark inspiring sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Homophobia, Racial slurs, Racism, Xenophobia, and Hate crime

areadingstan's review against another edition

dark emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

‘What was life about other than to find someone whom you could share everything? Every thought, every success, every drama?’

This novel had been on my list for a long while, the final catalyst to read it being @sallygalulareads book club ‘Diversify Your Reading’. I got it out for the library without much expectation, but this turned out to be a masterpiece. 

Rainbow Milk follows a young black boy named Jesse, who leaves behind an oppressive family structure in the Black Country and moves to London, with no concrete plans but the hope that he can be himself there. During his time in London, we follow along with Jesse’s experience exploring the gay scene, and settling into his queer identity that he had repressed for so long. We see him decide to become a sex worker in order to make ends meet in an environment filled with people who don’t see him as an equal. 

I thought this was such a fresh and realistic coming-of-age story, and Mendez has really captured how it feels to be lost somewhere new, to not know where your life is going, but he still makes us feel like it is going to be OK. Mendez’s writing is also so intimate and vivid that I felt we were allowed to know so much of Jesse even though the narration was in the third person, and I felt very connected to him. 

The descriptions are filled with so much detail, but it doesn’t feel overwhelming, more like Mendez is building up layers and layers of the city like a painting. It reminded me a lot of Bryan Washington’s Memorial, in the sense that there was a clear focus and theme that seemed to bring people together; in Washington’s novel this was food, but in Mendez’s, music filled this role. It was such a huge part of Jesse’s identity, and affected the way he saw himself and the world around him. 

The book dealt with issues like racism, sex work, AIDS and family trauma (definitely check TWs) in a tender way, that showed us the experiences Jesse had and how they influenced his choices, but Mendez also showed us that Jesse is more than his trauma and negative experiences, and he was able to discover his own family, follow his passions and heal wounds that seemed like they’d never close. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug use, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Racial slurs, Racism, and Homophobia

stormy_reading's review against another edition

emotional funny hopeful reflective sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual content, Racial slurs, Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, and Rape

ramreadsagain's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

"When did you last read a novel about a young, black, gay, Jehovah's Witness man from wolverhampton who flees his community to make his way in London as a prostitute?" - Bernardine Evaristo.

I really liked this story of family, religion, identity and nationality (and also daddy issues). It's written so tenderly in a way that makes you really feel what Jesse feels as he crashes through early adulthood. I also feel like I've learnt a lot from it.

The last 100 pages were less good, featuring a 14 year time jump where a lot has magically developed and improved without us able to actually see Jesse experience it. I also found some of the commentary in the final chapters a bit heavy-handed. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Terminal illness, Racism, Alcohol, Sexual content, and Drug abuse

Moderate: Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Racial slurs, War, and Homophobia

Minor: Outing, Physical abuse, Miscarriage, and Pregnancy

louise010's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual content, Racism, Racial slurs, and Homophobia

the_bookishkat's review against another edition

emotional reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug use, Homophobia, Racial slurs, and Racism

sakisreads's review

hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

What a superb story! 🥰 I felt so soothed reading it (as although there were moments of trauma, there were also moments of happiness and joy scattered throughout).

I really did not make the link between Norman and Jesse’s stories initially, so it came as a surprise somewhat, but not a nasty one. I’m so glad Jesse was able to make his connection to Robert (his dad) via the paintings and the chat with Conroy (even though Conroy’s bit felt calculated).

My friend recommended this to me and I must thank them, as I feel tremendous after reading it. Fans of books like Mr. Loverman would really enjoy this 🙋🏻‍♀️

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Racial slurs and Racism