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Julie Yip-Williams
3.99 AVERAGE
240 reviews for:
Do ostatnich dni. Zapis życia, choroby i wszystkiego, co przychodzi później
Julie Yip-Williams
3.99 AVERAGE
Julie was a friend of a friend; I never met her.
This is dark and intense. I had to read it in little chunks, so I wouldn’t get overwhelmed. I especially liked her attacks on what she called the “hope industrial complex.” I so admire her honesty, even when it gets dark and brutal. She must have been really amazing.
This is dark and intense. I had to read it in little chunks, so I wouldn’t get overwhelmed. I especially liked her attacks on what she called the “hope industrial complex.” I so admire her honesty, even when it gets dark and brutal. She must have been really amazing.
reflective
slow-paced
Poignant and yet so vibrant.
Reaffirms that cancer is anything but fair.
Received as a Goodreads giveaway.
Reaffirms that cancer is anything but fair.
Received as a Goodreads giveaway.
emotional
informative
inspiring
sad
fast-paced
Good, moving and powerful. Even though it was important to her, and I guess her journey and story, I didn't care for her early life before coming to America
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
OK be ready with the tissues by the end of this one, as Julie Yip-Williams takes us on the emotional rollercoaster that has been her life.
Surviving attempted infantcide, blindness, and a harrowing journey across the seas as a refugee of Vietnam Julie has finally gotten through her trials, has a loving husband and two children, a career as a lawyer, financial stability only to be struck down with colon cancer at the age of 37.
Everything that Julie is thinking and feeling is laid bare on the page with a startling honesty that leaves you reeling. This isn't a woman who wants to be a martyr,.She is in turns angry, upset self-pitying and above all honest about what she is going through. There's no holding back it is a brutal and honest account of a relentless and exhausting battle with cancer and Julie tells it with a rawness that is rare in other books of this kind. While not being able to empathise I appreciated her no holds barred approach to her narrative. Not many books make me cry and maybe I'm just a little emotional right now but this one had me in tears at the end. It made me wish I had known this extraordinary woman, and I felt that within these pages, I got a little glimpse of who she was.
Please read this book, it's extraordinary.
Surviving attempted infantcide, blindness, and a harrowing journey across the seas as a refugee of Vietnam Julie has finally gotten through her trials, has a loving husband and two children, a career as a lawyer, financial stability only to be struck down with colon cancer at the age of 37.
Everything that Julie is thinking and feeling is laid bare on the page with a startling honesty that leaves you reeling. This isn't a woman who wants to be a martyr,.She is in turns angry, upset self-pitying and above all honest about what she is going through. There's no holding back it is a brutal and honest account of a relentless and exhausting battle with cancer and Julie tells it with a rawness that is rare in other books of this kind. While not being able to empathise I appreciated her no holds barred approach to her narrative. Not many books make me cry and maybe I'm just a little emotional right now but this one had me in tears at the end. It made me wish I had known this extraordinary woman, and I felt that within these pages, I got a little glimpse of who she was.
Please read this book, it's extraordinary.
Julie Yip-Williams should not have been alive at age 37, when she was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer. She was born to Chinese parents in Viet Nam, right after the end of the war. She had cataracts that could not be surgically corrected in Viet Nam. Her paternal grandmother sent her parents to Da Nag, to a medicine man, to have Julie killed. The medicine man refused to do it. She ended up immigrating to the United States, where her vision was partially fixed at age 4.
Despite her visual limitations, she attended two prestigious colleges (Williams and Harvard). She became a lawyer, world traveler, and eventually met the man of her dreams and settled down with him in New York City, where they were raising their two young daughters.
Julie started writing her book after she was diagnosed. It details her four year battle with cancer. However, this is not just another "I'm-dying-young" memoir. This book goes so much deeper than that. This book is a brutally honest exploration of all the feelings that comes along with such a horrible diagnosis. Julie is unsparing in her writings. She doesn't deny the anger, depression, and denial she had to fight, along with the disease. She openly discusses everything she feels. She talks openly about how hard it was for her and her family to deal with her diagnosis.
What I appreciated most about this book was her willingness to include the things that made her look bad - the mean thoughts, the crying, the anger. She is raw and honest. I appreciated that. The only thing I took a bit of an issue with is that she and her husband are wealthy. They are both attorneys, working at one of the biggest law firms in the country. They can afford to buy their neighbor's apartment and turn it into one big one. They travel to exotic places. She contemplates spending $7,000 a month on an experimental drug, saying she can comfortably do that for a couple of months. While I don't begrudge her the wealth she has worked so hard for, it skews the nature of her treatment. If she didn't have the access to good health insurance, and enough money to afford a very expensive chemo drug, things would have been quite different for her. But I have to keep in mind that this book is about her journey through cancer, not anyone else's. And she is writing about her circumstances.
I was so sad to learn that she died in March of this year. She was an amazingly talented writer and this book was a gut punch, but also a joy to read. She used her life as an example of what you can do when you are real. She talks about a lot of cancer support groups and blogs and websites where people put up false hope and false faces of happiness and denial because that is what this society expects from people suffering from terminal illness. I loved that she called them out for doing that and she refused to so the same. Making her cancer, and all the emotions that go with it - very real. And not always flattering.
I think that not only will this book stay with me, it will continue to resonate in me and it is one that I will revisit. It is filled with such wisdom and reality. I cannot recommend this book highly enough. I won this book and received no other compensation in exchange for this review. The opinions expressed herein are mine and mine alone.
I loved this beautiful and compelling memoir of living with and dying from colon cancer. Julie Yip-Williams packed a lot of living into her too-short life. She didn't mince words when writing about the awful stuff of cancer but she also wrote with eyes wide open about life, relationships, and deep, abiding love.
I found the first third of this book to be so positive, too positive, and it didn’t feel authentic to me. How could anyone facing such difficulties remain so positive?
But, then, further on you see the whole range of human emotions, the fear and anger with which Julie deals with her failing health and the approach of her inevitable death. It was heartbreaking, honest and a powerful read
But, then, further on you see the whole range of human emotions, the fear and anger with which Julie deals with her failing health and the approach of her inevitable death. It was heartbreaking, honest and a powerful read
dark
emotional
sad
fast-paced