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Memory Man by David Baldacci

10 reviews

adventurous dark mysterious tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Yes

Gripping murder mystery. Quite graphic on describing the murders, so I skimmed through that, although there are definitely purely clues in those descriptions. Learned a lot about hyperthymesia. The main character runs off on hunches multiple times without explaining to the reader what’s going on, which got a little old about halfway through the book. Fast paced read, and I  recommend with caution. 

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dark mysterious tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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mysterious tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Memory Man was a thrilling but absolutely terribly written book. The plot was fast paced and exciting, the mystery aspect made it interesting, and I liked the main character. I think those are the only good things I can say about this book. 


The blatant and excessive anti-fatness/fatphobia and the glaring inconsistencies in the writing were absolutely infuriating. I rolled my eyes so many times I made myself dizzy. 

He constantly brings up just how "fat", "huge", "obese", and "substantial" his main character is. He's also a "whale", apparently. Baldacci does not do this with ANY of the other characters. One main character is thin, the other petite, and there are no more references to that aspect of them for the rest of the book. As it should be! I don't need to be reminded over and over because I can already picture them. Amos Decker's "bulk" serves as a small plot device, otherwise it's used to demean, ridicule, and shame the main character. Frankly, I found it reprehensible, in poor taste and just plain bad writing.

Baldacci includes a lot of pointless unnecessary detail in his descriptions as well. I kept wondering why he would mention a certain detail and find it never once came up again the story. It serves no purpose!

The intersex storyline was hugely problematic as well. Baldacci apparently couldn't decide which pronouns this character would use and switched between he and she repeatedly. If this book had been published 25 years ago, I may have forgiven Baldacci's ignorance regarding intersex individuals but this came out in 2015! And of course the intersex character is the villain. Excuse me while I roll my eyes...They're so "damaged", right? The author tries to frame it like the trauma this character endured was the motivation behind their behaviour but he slips up frequently bringing it back to their intersex identity!


I really wanted to like this book. I thought the premise of a detective with hyperthymesia and synesthesia was pretty engaging. I actually like the main character! Though it seems Baldacci does not given the way he writes about him. I have never read anything by David Baldacci before picking up Memory Man but I don't know if I'll be able to read anything else he's written. Is it all this bad? How is he such a popular author? 


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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

February 13, 2025
Amos Decker used to be in the Burlington Police Force. That was before his wife, daughter, and brother-in-law were brutally murdered. Overwhelmed with grief, Decker's life falls apart, loses his job as a detective, his house, and his self-respect.

Now, a year and a half later, working part-time P.I., and being overweight, he gets informed by his former partner that someone has confessed to the murders of his wife, daughter, and brother-in-law Decker knows that it's time to get justice.

Amos Decker's head injury during his youth NFL career gave him a kind of cognitive memory where he starts seeing things in photos, symbols, and in people's expressions that others can not. This special talent helps him crack many cases in Burlington Police Department and even during the detective work he does after someone confesses to his wife's murder.

I used to be an avid reader of David Baldacci novels in the 2000s. If you change the motive of the antagonist, then this book reminded me quite heavily of Baldacci's earlier novel named LAST MAN STANDING(2001). There was a mass school shooting interconnected to the protagonist's professional life in that one, and in Memory Man, a mass school shooting in connected to Amos Decker's personal life.

Baldacci's writing and story telling is brilliant as always, but there is a certain world that he does not get out of. If one reads other writers like Karin Slaughter, for example, you feel what the protagonists feel. Here, you feel disconnected to the emotions of the protagonist. It is only about the plot and twists.

Its a series but I don't look forward to go much further in this one.


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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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This book is t really my normal MO - I got it in a blind-date-with-a-book that my 13 year old got at the library a determined she didn’t want to read. So I decided to branch out from my typical reading. There were several moments when I wanted to out the book down and not finish - mostly because of how women were portrayed/described by the main character and his lack of understanding of trans and queer populations.  I powered through and was still unimpressed. Though, the author does receive some cred for the attempt at subtle red herrings he wrote into the story. 

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

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dark mysterious slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I read this book for my book club and really that was the only reason I read the whole thing. 
Nothing about this book was good. Hardly even okay. From poorly written female characters to being right out fatphobic, homophobic and transphobic to describe characters. The book really did have a chance to make awesome characters, but the author had to make everyone stupid so that our "not like other guys" main character could sound smart while doing the bare minimum.
None of the clues made since and seemed like the main character just pulled the answers out of his ass, female characters were said to be strong, but they were all pushed to the side and did nothing for the story, and really everything was so poorly represented I have no idea how this book became a best seller of anything.  

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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