jaealey's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

5.0


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runtomelover's review against another edition

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medium-paced

2.25

solid read, follows the standard memoir beat sheet. yes some of the sections feel a bit like a dictionary, but i'm sure for those who are not already informed on some aspects touched on, such as me for most of the hawai'i parts requiring nuance or experience, found it helpful despite the smooth segway's. glad i read it since i love her work

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sugarcainn's review against another edition

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emotional informative inspiring slow-paced

4.0

This was a beautiful story that provides insight into the challenges Trans women go through. I really liked that she adds statistics and other commentary on general Trans youth. This was eye-opening for me.

While are stories aren't identical, it was interesting to see the parallels of our lives growing up as Black women.

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livlamentloathe's review against another edition

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4.0

I cannot say I “enjoyed” this read given the struggles Janet faced throughout her life, but I appreciated her honesty and sincerity. I’m glad to have learned from her story. I think this memoir stands on its own, and I recommend it to anyone who doesn’t know much about trans folks. Especially trans women of color. I wish there was more empathy and compassion in the world for kids growing up and experiencing dysphoria. I wish there were more systems in place to give a soft landing to those who felt desperate or alone or anxious.
The scene when Janet put money on the table for her mom was especially fraught for me. That feeling of wanting your parents to care more for you and to notice you struggling is familiar, probably to more than a handful of us. It’s hard to feel both supported and let down by your family.
I am glad Janet was able to grow from her childhood/past. And that she was able to achieve her goals safely considering the danger she was often in. And I think it was pivotal of her to repeat statistics and affirmations that no surgery will make you a “real” girl. You are real. A poignant story with a lot to learn from.

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madeleinebay's review against another edition

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4.25


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littlecozyreaderr's review against another edition

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4.0


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womanwill's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced

5.0


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robinks's review against another edition

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challenging emotional informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

I didn’t know much about Mock’s story before listening to this audiobook, and it was incredibly moving to hear it in her own voice. While she did an incredible job tying in statistics and the larger context of her life, she also took great care to emphasize that this is her story, which is just one of many lived by marginalized folks of intersecting identities.

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justinethereadingqueen's review against another edition

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emotional informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.5


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emotional informative fast-paced

5.0


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