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Finding Me by Viola Davis

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5.0


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3.5

"Every January, we had our Martin Luther King celebration, a variety show [...] it was our rebellion. We were told it would ruin our instrument. Well, our soul was our instrument, too."

I love Annalise MF Keating, but I didn't know too much about Viola Davis. In Finding Me, Viola talks less about her career as an actress and more about the systemic poverty and racism and the coinciding internalized struggles that she had to overcome to be the woman we know today. And she doesn't hold anything back.

She talks a lot about what society deems beautiful, worthy, or correct. During her time at Juiliard, students were discouraged from hosting an MLK Day program or anything that might highlight their differences from their white counterparts. She talks about the typecast roles that she would be cast in or invited to audition for. She talks about what it was like to be called beautiful for the first time. She talks about therapy. 

In the end, she talks about finding herself, writing, "I am no longer ashamed of me."

I will never know firsthand what it's like to experience the abject poverty and racism that Viola grew up with. And that's why it's so important to read about. When she talked about being called beautiful for the first time, I started to wonder, when was the last time I told somebody they were pretty? When was the last time I told a woman of color that she was beautiful? When was the last time I supported a black-owned café instead of just picking up a latte at my local Tim Hortons? When did I last show kindness to a stranger?

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5.0

This book was everything I needed and more. When she said “The purpose of life is to live it” agghhhhhh I needed that 

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5.0

One of the most powerful biographies I’ve ever listened to.

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4.0

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"It is a widely held belief that dark-skinned women just don't do it for a lot of Black men. It's a mentality rooted in both racism and misogyny, that you have no value as a woman if you do not turn them on, if you are not desirable to them. It's ingrained thinking, dictated by oppression." 

THINGS I ENJOYED
  • Viola Davis' narration in the audiobook: she is a powerhouse!
  • What a life story!
  • Great insights into the world of acting (theatre, cinema and tv), including the difficulties in “making it” and the prejudice within it
  • The way Viola’s dedication to her art is palpable is incredible and inspiring
  • It’s a very raw book and it definitely appeals to your emotions

THINGS I DIDN'T ENJOY
  • There are sections where the book jumps back and forward in time, without references, and it gets a bit confusing/hard to follow

RECOMMENDED TO
  • If you’re into memoirs, you’ll probably like this one!
  • Viola Davis fans and appreciators of the art of acting will probably like this one particularly (the second half especially)
  • This is a strong one and I found myself selecting almost every item from the TW list, so be aware of that going in!

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5.0


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4.75


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janaycleaver's review against another edition

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4.25


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amandas_bookshelf's review against another edition

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5.0


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missbsbookshelf's review against another edition

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5.0


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