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Małe życie by Hanya Yanagihara

1788 reviews

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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I'm conflicted about this book. It is masterfully written and I fell in love with the characters. In fact, I don't think I will be able to stop thinking about them any time soon. 
The book kept me hooked almost to the end, but after 600 pages or so I really just wanted it to end, because I couldn't take it anymore. Yes, I read all the warnings about how heartbreaking this book is, but no warning can prepare you for actually reading it. While I am kind of drawn to dark, heartbreaking stories, this one was admittedly a bit too much for me because it just didn't get better. Any time there was a bit of happiness, it just got taken away again.  
Nevertheless, I am still glad I read this book, because of how much I love these characters and because it is an incredible study in love, relatonships, depression, and the longlasting effects of both major trauma and undconditional love. 
Additionally, I have never read such a raw and honest description of someone battling trauma and major mental health issues and as someone who reads and researches a lot about this topic, I appreciated this honesty. 

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

"You won't understand what I mean now, but someday you will: the only trick of friendship, I think, is to find people who are better than you are — not smarter, not cooler, but kinder, and more generous, and more forgiving– and then to appreciate them for what they can teach you, and to try to listen to them when they tell you something about yourself, no matter how bad— or good– it might be, and to trust them, which is the hardest thing of all. But the best as well."

Completely devastating but it's a masterpiece. Such a raw and visceral book. Also, I don't know if it was the author's conscious decision to not delve into Malcolm's character but I would have loved to read more about him and his life in depth..like I did JB.
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I don't think this book will ever leave me. It is ingrained in my bones, steeped into my blood, in my very soul. I will think of this book for many many years to come.

So, what's this book about? It's about 4 boys- Jude, JB, Malcolm and Willem. It follows them straight from college and into adulthood as they struggle with the demons of their pasts, present and futures. It deals with grief, sexual assault, addiction among other subjects. But it also deals with friendship, love, hope and the resilience of the human body and spirit.

This is a sad and miserable book. Don't get me wrong. Its contents are rough. But it is not a big bad scary wolf that you should be scared of. lt's actually poignant and the writing is lyrical and it's profound and it is brilliant. So don't let the reviews deter you. Check out the content warnings before you pick it up though, because we need to keep ourselves safe. And if you are able to get through heavy subject material, please pick this up. It is a masterpiece and deserves all the hype.


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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
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Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

i felt that the writing was absolutely stunning but the series of events was not plausible. how could all of this happen in succession to one person? i felt it was unrealistic at some points and was just 'misery porn'. i do like how it portrays the struggles of grief and healing from trauma as something that is absolutely not linear and there is no time limit in which you must heal, but how could all of this happen in a real life? i loved the friendship group even though it was dysfunctional.
also how did they all die in a short amount of time like?? that part in harold's chapter at the end threw me for a loop.
all of the characters seemed to be categorised into either good or bad and it was not accurate to real humanity ig

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This book devastated me. Will think about jude st. Francis for the rest of my life. 

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Diverse cast of characters: Yes
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