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Study for Obedience by Sarah Bernstein

5 reviews

emjay2021's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
This is such a strange book. I found the beginning to be a bit of a hard slog, but after 50 pages, things really picked up for me. Things started to actually happen. Disturbing things, mind you, but still. 

Bernstein’s writing is really good, but her sentences are long, elliptical, and sometimes hard to parse. The narrator is weird and difficult to like—but I’m convinced this is intentional on the part of the author. Numerous times I found myself very irritated by the narrator and thinking, “Stop being so naive! Stand up for yourself!” Which is all a bit unfair, because we do know why she is the way she is (or at least have a pretty good idea). It casts the reader into the role of the townspeople, which is a discomfiting place to be. 

This book is all about dominance and submission, ostracism, prejudice and oppression. It’s about weird, small-town mindset and fear of the other. It’s a claustrophobic, peculiar book. There’s a sense of creeping dread that contrasts with the bucolic setting in a way that reminds me of Shirley Jackson’s “Summer People,” or movies like The Wicker Man or Midsommar.

I’m not going to give it a rating because I don’t tend to rate experimental books. I’m not sorry I read it, but I can’t say it was pleasant, either. Still, I kept noting turns of phrase while reading and thinking about the book even after I finished reading. I was glad it was short, though.

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sha's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated

3.0


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blacksallyrooney's review

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challenging dark mysterious reflective tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? N/A
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

2.5 / 5 stars

Existence is futile, Sarah Bernstein’s Giller Prize-winning second novel offers flat-out, from its first to its last page. The possibility of a peaceful, or peaceable, life is outright denied, and this conclusion is decisive in the novel’s respective study (or, even, a fable) of Jewish life and diaspora, of power among intimacy, of land, and of the shroud of the Holocaust that Europe willfully wound around itself yet writhes against. 

I appreciate Bernstein’s attempt to ‘unspool’ (a word she loves—perhaps too much) this immersive insight into social degradation and power’s effects on the psyche, as well as the powerful mundanity of cruelty, exclusion, and genocide. 

However, I was continually unconvinced by the narrator’s placidity, which goes beyond the bounds of stylistic preference and felt like a fundamental rift between myself and Bernstein in what this book’s philosophy is. At times the novel worked in examining ‘how much’ the unnamed narrator could take, psychically—I felt these worked best in more surreal scenes, like the diner scene, which is probably among the best writing. Yet the shakiest parts were these repeating, droning flashbacks that recounted in minute detail the slights and terrors that the narrator had experienced from girlhood onward, so similar in its restrained tone, so fatalistic and deferential to the world’s inevitable cruelty, it wasn’t devastating—it was annoying. 

Now, this may be intentional on Bernstein’s part, to evoke a guilt in the reader for becoming so fed-up with a woman staying down after being knocked down. Even, maybe, to implicate the reader in the narrator’s subjection. If it’s the case that it’s intended, it’s even more grating. 

I’m not sure if we can both—if a character so totally isolated her entire life from a crumb of fairness and self-determination can also be so articulate about the conditions of her own suffering, without, 1) uttering the word “antisemitism” (which is not erased by any means, but is designed to be the invisible, throttling force—I’m still thinking-through this, but how might this book have been more productive if blatantly voiced?); and 2) uttering a howl?

Here’s my idealism bubbling up—my fault—I believe, like the arc of the moral universe, the human heart bends toward justice. Bernstein’s narrator and I won’t see eye-to-eye on this. But I’m not sure if she’s designed to be able to see into very much, including her own agonies, and that might be a bug, not a feature. 

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ogik's review against another edition

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emotional mysterious slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.25


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rebeccafarren's review against another edition

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challenging dark mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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