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cupajo's review against another edition
emotional
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Moderate: Infertility, Miscarriage, and Sexual content
jeimy's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
This is truly one of the best books I’ve ever read. I felt so affirmed as a Dominican-American, so seen. The prose is so beautiful and descriptive. I think anyone interested in immigrant, family dynamics and learning the power of women and sisters would enjoy it. At the end of the book, I felt as though I knew the characters, as though they were my own family. I will definitely be re-reading this via audiobook.
My one piece of feedback is thatI thought it could have had a slightly stronger ending. Maybe the impact flew over my head but the last sentence could have been more powerful. For that I would give it a 4.90 stars in my personal records, haha.
My one piece of feedback is that
Content Warnings
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Death, Infertility, and Sexism
mugsandmanuscripts's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
TLDR: This a poignant novel and skillful writing even if it isn't really my cup of tea.
Family Lore is the story of 6 Dominican women—sisters Matilde, Flor, Pastora, and Camila, and Ona and Yadi, the daughters of Flor and Pastora. Acevado creates a character- and relationship-driven narrative that explores family ties, inner struggles, relational and familial tension, sexuality, and especially love in its many forms. This is not a light read, although it is beautiful.
Spanning multiple points of view and sometimes overlapping timelines, Family Lore takes place in the few weeks between Flor's dream about her death and her living wake. Her decision to call this gathering together makes everyone nervous, as Flor has a gift (or a curse) for foreseeing how and when people die in her dreams. She stays mum on the date and way of her passing, but everyone knows something is up.
With that as the backdrop, Acevedo takes us on a journey through both the present struggles of the sisters and daughters as well as an examination of their past. Ona is an anthropologist and takes on her family as a research project. There are several short asides in which she adds her commentary on specific issues.
Matilde has no supernatural gift, but her graciousness is other-worldly, and she is taken advantage of because of it. Flor struggled with her spiritual connection to death from an early age. Pastora, reader of people's truths, was too much child for their anxious and cold mother, so she was sent away and abused by a (possibly) possessed aunt. And Camila came many years after Pastora, so she is never quite as connected to her sisters nor does she have a supernatural gift.
I felt connected to each of the sisters, but I struggled to connect with Ona and Yadi a bit (which is okay; no one has to connect with every character). I was mesmerized by each of their unique stories, and I really liked following their stories and growth. I also loved the magical realism incorporated into the novel—I never felt like I was taken for a fantastical ride, although I loved what the magic brought to the story. It was all almost believable.
The main reason that this is not a 5-star read for me is that I really, really struggled to get through it. I found myself not wanting to pick it up to finish but at the same time feeling like I needed to finish it because it was a story that deserved to be finished. The end is foretold in the beginning, so I never really reached a point where I felt like I had to know what came next, so it was often easy to put down and harder than usual for me to pick up. I tend to prefer plot-driven rather than character-driven books, and this was very much NOT a plot-driven narrative. That said, I'm going to be adding Acevedo's other work to my TBR.
Family Lore is the story of 6 Dominican women—sisters Matilde, Flor, Pastora, and Camila, and Ona and Yadi, the daughters of Flor and Pastora. Acevado creates a character- and relationship-driven narrative that explores family ties, inner struggles, relational and familial tension, sexuality, and especially love in its many forms. This is not a light read, although it is beautiful.
Spanning multiple points of view and sometimes overlapping timelines, Family Lore takes place in the few weeks between Flor's dream about her death and her living wake. Her decision to call this gathering together makes everyone nervous, as Flor has a gift (or a curse) for foreseeing how and when people die in her dreams. She stays mum on the date and way of her passing, but everyone knows something is up.
With that as the backdrop, Acevedo takes us on a journey through both the present struggles of the sisters and daughters as well as an examination of their past. Ona is an anthropologist and takes on her family as a research project. There are several short asides in which she adds her commentary on specific issues.
Matilde has no supernatural gift, but her graciousness is other-worldly, and she is taken advantage of because of it. Flor struggled with her spiritual connection to death from an early age. Pastora, reader of people's truths, was too much child for their anxious and cold mother, so she was sent away and abused by a (possibly) possessed aunt. And Camila came many years after Pastora, so she is never quite as connected to her sisters nor does she have a supernatural gift.
I felt connected to each of the sisters, but I struggled to connect with Ona and Yadi a bit (which is okay; no one has to connect with every character). I was mesmerized by each of their unique stories, and I really liked following their stories and growth. I also loved the magical realism incorporated into the novel—I never felt like I was taken for a fantastical ride, although I loved what the magic brought to the story. It was all almost believable.
The main reason that this is not a 5-star read for me is that I really, really struggled to get through it. I found myself not wanting to pick it up to finish but at the same time feeling like I needed to finish it because it was a story that deserved to be finished. The end is foretold in the beginning, so I never really reached a point where I felt like I had to know what came next, so it was often easy to put down and harder than usual for me to pick up. I tend to prefer plot-driven rather than character-driven books, and this was very much NOT a plot-driven narrative. That said, I'm going to be adding Acevedo's other work to my TBR.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse and Infertility
Moderate: Alcoholism and Infidelity
Minor: Miscarriage and Pregnancy
brittie19's review against another edition
I stopped the audio book at 2hrs 58 minutes.
I want to get back to it for the maternal familial stories but for now, I think I can find that vibe elsewhere and be a little more interested in the story. I like the premise, but am currently unsure about the execution.
I want to get back to it for the maternal familial stories but for now, I think I can find that vibe elsewhere and be a little more interested in the story. I like the premise, but am currently unsure about the execution.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Infertility
I really do like it and will probably pick it back up, but I don't think it is my speed currently. The changing POVs make it a little much, but still interesting to listen to.skitch41's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Content Warnings
Moderate: Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
gelslitreviews's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.75
Content Warnings
Moderate: Death, Infertility, Infidelity, and Death of parent
rgander's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.5
Content Warnings
Minor: Death, Infertility, Miscarriage, and Rape
machenn's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Death, Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Death of parent, Pregnancy, and Alcohol
rowancdewit's review against another edition
emotional
mysterious
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.0
I would like it to be known that after the first 100 pages, I started only reading the first line of every other paragraph, and I still understood everything that happened in the story.
I’m pretty bummed, because the things that I did enjoy about this book, I really liked! But the things that I didn’t enjoy about the book ruined and tainted my experience with the book as a whole.
I wish more than ANYTHING that Acevedo would have focused on the four sisters. Or just a book written on Flor’s perspective, or just a book written on the three sister’s perspective of Flor in their life and leading to the wake. Every single time the narrative switched to Yadi or Ona, it took everything in me not to skip chapters entirely. They’re thirty year old women that speak like twelve year olds, extremely unrealistic and unnatural and just, super teenager-esque.
Oh goodness, Yadi and Ona’s chapters are so graphic! Granted, I am more conservative on my tolerance for sexual references in books, but this book? I’m sorry, it is so disgustingly graphic for absolutely no purpose. Gross, nasty, perverse graphic scenes that just gave me the ick. And pages and pages of it. If this book had been focused on only Yadi and Ona’s stories, I really wouldn’t have finished this book.
If anyone’s familiar, this book just had major Rupi Kaur vibes. Overexercised metaphors and details and exaggerations that make this book sound so out of touch. Granted, there were some good quotes in this book, but I think it’s one of those “even a blind squirrel finds a nut every now and then” moments. Choppy writing, chapters that just felt like they had no purpose. I’d find myself mid-paragraph saying “what is the point of this?” Really, the writing felt like the author wanted the book to feel so real and so relatable, but it was really just unnatural and hard to read.
Oh! And then the Spanish! I do not mind the interweaving of Spanish and English, I really feel like it adds character to the bilingual characters. But! To drop it in all the time, full sentences, and no context clues to understand what they’re saying. I’m confused if the author just wanted me to have Google translate up the entire time (because we all know how reliable of a translation that gives?) I’m really good at picking up context clues in books, but there were many times that a Spanish line was written out, and after a few minutes, I’d just keep reading and hope it wasn’t important, which seems like the opposite of what the author would hope to achieve by adding in Spanish elements?
Again, I wish we could have a version of this book that just focused on the narrative of the sisters, because even that would have done wonders for this story. Family Lore really felt like a child trying their absolute hardest to write a mature, adult book and prove that no one would know a child wrote it. Overused metaphors, simple words switched out for bigger more complex words JUST for the sake of it, a story structure so insanely hard to follow, and language so foul it would ONLY make a twelve year old giggle. If anyone mentioned to me that they were going to read this book, I would 100% steer them away.
I’m pretty bummed, because the things that I did enjoy about this book, I really liked! But the things that I didn’t enjoy about the book ruined and tainted my experience with the book as a whole.
I wish more than ANYTHING that Acevedo would have focused on the four sisters. Or just a book written on Flor’s perspective, or just a book written on the three sister’s perspective of Flor in their life and leading to the wake. Every single time the narrative switched to Yadi or Ona, it took everything in me not to skip chapters entirely. They’re thirty year old women that speak like twelve year olds, extremely unrealistic and unnatural and just, super teenager-esque.
Oh goodness, Yadi and Ona’s chapters are so graphic! Granted, I am more conservative on my tolerance for sexual references in books, but this book? I’m sorry, it is so disgustingly graphic for absolutely no purpose. Gross, nasty, perverse graphic scenes that just gave me the ick. And pages and pages of it. If this book had been focused on only Yadi and Ona’s stories, I really wouldn’t have finished this book.
If anyone’s familiar, this book just had major Rupi Kaur vibes. Overexercised metaphors and details and exaggerations that make this book sound so out of touch. Granted, there were some good quotes in this book, but I think it’s one of those “even a blind squirrel finds a nut every now and then” moments. Choppy writing, chapters that just felt like they had no purpose. I’d find myself mid-paragraph saying “what is the point of this?” Really, the writing felt like the author wanted the book to feel so real and so relatable, but it was really just unnatural and hard to read.
Oh! And then the Spanish! I do not mind the interweaving of Spanish and English, I really feel like it adds character to the bilingual characters. But! To drop it in all the time, full sentences, and no context clues to understand what they’re saying. I’m confused if the author just wanted me to have Google translate up the entire time (because we all know how reliable of a translation that gives?) I’m really good at picking up context clues in books, but there were many times that a Spanish line was written out, and after a few minutes, I’d just keep reading and hope it wasn’t important, which seems like the opposite of what the author would hope to achieve by adding in Spanish elements?
Again, I wish we could have a version of this book that just focused on the narrative of the sisters, because even that would have done wonders for this story. Family Lore really felt like a child trying their absolute hardest to write a mature, adult book and prove that no one would know a child wrote it. Overused metaphors, simple words switched out for bigger more complex words JUST for the sake of it, a story structure so insanely hard to follow, and language so foul it would ONLY make a twelve year old giggle. If anyone mentioned to me that they were going to read this book, I would 100% steer them away.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Infertility and Sexual content
Moderate: Sexual assault
passionatereader78's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I love Elizabeth Acevedo! I enjoyed the generations of women telling the story of their family and their experiences. The way Elizabeth tells a story is like the gentle ripples in a lake. Each new experience flows into the previous ones seamlessly. Flor is dying soon and she wants her flowers while she's alive, so she plans a living wake. We follow the family as they plan the wake. Each woman in the family gives us insight on the family. We learn from each person the family's history.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcoholism, Death, Infertility, Miscarriage, Pregnancy, and Alcohol
Moderate: Infertility, Mental illness, and Sexual content
Minor: Confinement and Vomit