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Take Me with You When You Go by David Levithan, Jennifer Niven

kelly_cosgrove's review

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dark emotional hopeful sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0

notblue's review

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4.0

I really liked how they communicated through email

4/5

THIS WAS BOOK 100 THIS YEAR! HOLY COW HAVE I READ A LOT

pau_line's review against another edition

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dark mysterious fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

Es geht in der Geschichte um Ezra, dessen Schwester von einem Tag auf den anderen verschwindet, ihrem Bruder aber eine Email-Adresse hinterlässt, über die sie kommunizieren können. 
Das Buch ist auch im Format von vielen einzelnen Emails verfasst.
Die Geschwister stammen aus einem abusive Elternhaus mit einem gewalttätigen und gemeinen Stiefvater und einer sehe passiven und kaltherzigen Mutter, was ein wichtiges Thema des Buches darstellt.

Insgesamt hat mir das Buch wirklich gut gefallen, was ich nicht erwartet hätte. Es gibt tatsächlich eher wenig Handlung, sondern behandelt eher die Geschwisterdynamik, das Aufwachsen in einem solchen Elternhaus und die Befreiung daraus.

Das Format der Emails war wirklich sehr spannend und hat mich sehr gecatched. Man hat dadurch zwar nur Nacherzählungen der Handlung, aber die Dynamik ist irgendwie sehr besonders.

Die Charaktere waren auch sehr interessant, ich hab die Geschichte der beiden sehr gerne verfolgt und die Dynamik, obwohl die beiden nie persönlich interagiert haben, sehr gespürt.
Lediglich würde ich sagen, dass ich zu den beiden als Personen eher distant war und dadurch die Gecshichte nicht so ganz emotional involvierend war.

Trotzdem ein richtig gutes Buch mit einem wichtigen Thema, das für meine Verständnisse, sehr gut auch eingebunden wurde.

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pear_bits's review

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funny mysterious sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.5

mihini_123's review

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

hayleybeale's review

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3.0

Two big-name YA authors team up on a powerful novel about two teen siblings breaking away from an abusive home. Bea runs away from home just 2 months before she graduates high school, breaking all contact except an email link with her younger brother, Ezra. Their stepfather has been physically, mentally, and emotionally abusing the kids for years and their mother has been complicit. As Bea explores living away from this toxic environment, Ezra builds up the courage to break away too. (Ezra’s boyfriend is Black, all other characters are white)

The teens’ journey from cowering victims afraid to share their truth to empowered individuals seeking and finding support is beautifully conveyed through their own words (and the back matter provides plenty of resources for kids in abusive households).

However, I struggled with the medium that was used: Bea and Ezra send unfeasibly long, wordy, and perfectly composed (even including dialogue) emails to each other that feel much more like a narrative rather than a message. I understand the reasoning behind doing it this way - twin individual narratives would not have allowed for their relationship to build and help each other - but as the teens I know barely use email these multi-page opuses feel jarringly unreal and I felt I was hearing the authors’ voices rather than Bea and Ezra’s.

Nonetheless, Levithan and Niven have important things to say about breaking away from abuse and understanding your own self-worth and the reader will be cheering on Bea and Ezra on their individual paths.

Thanks to Knopf and Netgalley for the digital review copy.

pig_mania's review

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emotional reflective tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

confusedrachel's review

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5.0

this book was Hard, but god it was necessary. (my therapist will be hearing about this)

mbhoppe13's review

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slow-paced

3.0

henriet's review

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4.0

Best een leuk en vlot lezend verhaal. Ik vond het vooral leuk omdat het verhaal van Bea en Ezra werd verteld aan de hand van het mailcontact tussen beide.
Ik merkte wel dat er af en toe weinig gebeurde in, maar doordat het boek zo snel leest, was ik altijd wel weer benieuwd hoe het verhaal verder zou gaan. Al met al geef ik het boek 4 sterren, ik vond de schrijfstijl goed, het thema van het boek was passend en het einde van het boek vond ik ook erg leuk.