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Quando as mulheres eram dragoas by Kelly Barnhill

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

Great concept, wanted more from the execution. WHERE DID THEY GO, WHAT DID THEY DO THERE, WHY DID THEY COME BACK

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No

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The way the story unfolds was very cool in that it felt like rummaging through a box of clippings while reading through Alex's memoirs, but towards the end it felt like the box was all out of explanations for questions I still had. There was so much more I wanted to know about the dragoning, as well as Beth and Marla ! 

Despite this, it's still a very bittersweet feminist coming of age story worth reading. Reminded me of Little Women and Jane Eyre but with a queer fantasy twist. I was worried about the trans inclusivity of what appeared on the cover to be a rather gender exclusive event, but the book handled it really well.

There was some relevant woven in discourse about the dangers of repression, patriarchy, anti-intellectualism, and discrimination. I liked that even though the story portrays the harm caused by censorship and taboo, it also acknowledges the ease with which some people will slip into the comfort of ignorance. The dialogue does get repetitive though, and I wish the later parts of the book had cut that in favour of a more fleshed out lore. Both Gantz and Alex seemed to have very idealised thoughts on science and academia, and that also grated on me a little. 

The book's themes are so numerous and sometimes vague (on purpose though, because of the societal refusal to talk in a direct manner) that it's difficult to decide what exactly it's trying to say at any given point, but there's a lot of good lines in there, and my main take away was based on this great one

The smallness and the largeness of an individual life does not change the fundamental honor and value of every manifestation of our personhood.

It doesn't matter if you're ordinary or extraordinary as long as you just ARE. And along those lines I'm glad that this book exists and that I read it. 

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

This book is not for everyone, but I liked it despite the fictional autobiographical style that would normally run me off immediately. As someone who shares a number of experiences with the main character, it was as triggering as it was gratifying to see a reflection on the page. That being said, because of the autobiographical style, this novel is unfortunately not the most inclusive or diverse in its discussion of feminism. You can tell Kelly Barnhill tried, but if you're looking for a book that looks in depth and with great care at a variety of experiences of people from varying races, gender identity, ability, and any other marginalized identity under the patriarchy this is unfortunately not it. I do think that this book does have some interesting things to say, like looking at the mysticism and poor education surrounding the female body.

Like others have said, the ending was not Barnhill's best executed finale, and was very "magical mainly white feminism saves the world" which, like while I wish an all inclusive feminism would save the world ideally now please, definitely is an abrupt and careless end to a novel that details so, so much of its characters' endless struggles under the culturally reinforced patriarchy. I can understand why other reviews have the complaints they have, especially after reading the end.

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

This book is so delightfully unexpected. The tension between the old world and the new one forming is a character in its own right while you follow the life of the main character. From unexpected challenges to joyful mischief and alot of well deserved feminine rage this story is fun, joyful, sad, reflective and hopeful. It is a story first and foremost about our humanity and the connections we make. 

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

This was such an amazing book. What a wonderful mix of historical fiction and magical realism. 

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This book was a gorgeous & incredible read. I'm terrible at reviewing things but this book is not terrible at all and you should definitely read it. The lessons it imparts are at once contemporary and yet have been around for a long time, and it was really interesting to read something with almost every major character being female. If you're looking for a female rage book (and some dragons, as you might guess), you've come to the right place.

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