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Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl

7 reviews

picturetalk321's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring sad slow-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Genocide, Violence, Mental illness, Antisemitism, Cannibalism, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Excrement, Bullying, Body horror, Confinement, Death, Deportation, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Suicide attempt, and Torture

coneyislandslap13's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.75

This book definitely seems less pedantic and condescending than many which try to tackle the issues of depression and hopelessness in people with logic and grace. Through detailing memorable instances of events throughout his trials in the concentration camps of the Third Reich, he gives reasoning behind people’s need for purpose and motivation, and does so in a way that can relate to victims of such horrific atrocities just as easily as to young children suffering some of the first minor complications they’ve ever had. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Excrement, Gore, Medical content, Antisemitism, Confinement, Death, Bullying, Classism, Colonisation, Cursing, Deportation, Drug abuse, Kidnapping, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, Genocide, Grief, Hate crime, Injury/Injury detail, Religious bigotry, Mental illness, Medical trauma, Murder, Racial slurs, Slavery, Physical abuse, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, Trafficking, Violence, and War

tctimlin's review against another edition

challenging dark hopeful informative reflective fast-paced

3.0

Part One, where Frankl describes his concentration camp experiences is moving and devastating.  Part Two, where he describes his therapeutic philosophy, is dry and frustrating (I am not at all convinced that just flipping the script for a depressed or ill person is going to magically solve their issues).  He ignores biology in favor of just mentally changing one’s attitude.  The Afterword actually does a better job of explaining his philosophy and showing the optimism behind Frankl’s approach.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Physical abuse, Suicide, Grief, Antisemitism, Bullying, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Religious bigotry, Torture, Hate crime, Medical trauma, Mental illness, and War

cupofchait's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative inspiring reflective sad slow-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Confinement, Forced institutionalization, Antisemitism, Body shaming, Bullying, Death, Genocide, and War

margztgz's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

5.0

This is an absolutely phenomenal work, and I'm so glad to finally have read this. I think everyone should read this book, especially those feeling lost in life or those who have gone through very difficult and traumatic events. Man's Search for Meaning is incredibly inspiring and I truly love everything about this book, it was perfectly done. Frankl manages to address both uncomfortable topics on a personal level and a broader historical level in a poignant yet necessary way. I do not think a single word or sentence was irrelevant, and I was entranced the whole time. I will definitely be coming back to this for guidance, and I nearly underlined the whole book. 

Frankl has the unique voice of a poet, survivor, psychologist, and philosopher all rolled into one. I feel absolutely touched, and will now genuinely be readjusting my entire outlook on life. One of my favorite books I have read this year, to be sure. Everyone, please pick this up at least once!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Antisemitism, Bullying, Cannibalism, Confinement, Death, Emotional abuse, Genocide, Grief, Hate crime, Murder, Police brutality, Physical abuse, Religious bigotry, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Trafficking, Torture, Violence, War, and Self harm

crufts's review against another edition

challenging dark hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

5.0

After several months without one, it's wonderful to be able to write another five-star review.

Man's Search For Meaning is two books in one: it's a Holocaust memoir, but also an introduction to a form of psychotherapy called logotherapy which focuses on the human desire for meaning.

Firstly, how well does it work as a Holocaust memoir? Compared to other Holocaust memoirs (Elie Wiesel's Night, Yoram Gross's My Illustrated Life, and another memoir which will remain unnamed), Man's Search comes out on top as the best one I've ever read.
It declares exactly what it is up front (unlike My Illustrated Life). It only includes details that are relevant to the overall thesis of the story (unlike the memoir-which-shall-not-be-named). It writes with hope and intention for a better humanity (unlike Night, which is a portrait of inhumanity and cruelty). Its text is not fragmented and manic prose, but simple descriptive statements (also unlike Night). And it's short and to the point (which can be considered a plus for nearly any book, but especially a Holocaust memoir).

Secondly, how well does it work as a primer for logotherapy? Pretty well. Here my comparisons are the various other psychology books I've read, but especially The Courage To Be Disliked, since that book also attempts to promote a particular school of psychotherapy. (See my review of The Courage here.)
While I would have liked to hear more about how logotherapy can be applied in practice, the theory itself appears sound. Any reader over the age of two can attest to the truth of the claim that you can bear suffering quite well as long as you feel it's for a purpose, or it otherwise has meaning. Conversely, it's when one's suffering seems meaningless that thoughts of ending it all start to circle.
And you know, whenever I've been in a truly difficult or hopeless situation, stricken with fear or dread, there was always one thing that always gave me instantaneous comfort: the knowledge that no matter what happened, I still had the power to be the best version of myself possible. Whoever (or whatever) was causing me grief, no matter what they did to me, they couldn't stop me from choosing to remain polite, kind, and moral. "Living well is the best revenge", and by living well I gained the strength to get through those difficulties. And this is exactly the claim the book makes.
These observations are in contrast to my reading of The Courage To Be Disliked, where some of its claims rang true but others rang very hollow indeed. Now I actually want to read up about logotherapy!

If other Holocaust memoirs have burned you with their relentless misery and meaningless suffering, Man's Search For Meaning may be the soothing salve you need.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Injury/Injury detail, Murder, Trafficking, Violence, Physical abuse, Slavery, Genocide, Bullying, and War

Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt

Minor: Hate crime, Confinement, Excrement, Torture, Cannibalism, and Antisemitism

This is a Holocaust memoir. If you're looking for some light reading today, this book isn't the right pick. You might also consider reading only the second part (which discusses logotherapy), although you'll miss some of the context.

hollymaley's review against another edition

challenging informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Antisemitism, Bullying, Confinement, Death, Suicide, Physical abuse, and Murder

Minor: Sexual content