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toofondofbooks_'s review against another edition
4.5
I think this memoir does a beautiful job of stomping on the narrative that no matter what a woman looks like, it doesn't give them more power. Ratajkowski cites a quote by Halle Berry: "My looks have spared me no hardship." She's RIGHT. Your looks do not protect you from abuse at the hands of men and patriarchal norms in society. It's so insidious to go around believing that beautiful women don't have problems simply because they are beautiful.
Anyway - that was a tangent, back to what I thought...
There were sections listening to this audiobook where I flat out cried, especially when at times, Ratajkowski herself, narrating the book, would get choked up herself. I wanted to hug this woman every time that happened. It felt extremely intimate to listen to her read her own words.
Additionally, Emily Ratajkowski's writing is beautiful. The pictures she paints with her words are both lovely and grotesque, they can be joyful or heartbreaking, but they are consistently vivid. I will definitely be adding anything else she writes to my TBR.
Graphic: Addiction, Chronic illness, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Death and Eating disorder
citrinuke's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Bullying, Drug use, Eating disorder, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Blood, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Chronic illness, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Self harm, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
radiodarkblue's review against another edition
4.0
But what I loved the most are the moments when she talks about her body and women, they really impacted me a lot.
I'm glad this book exists, because even though I don't know anything about the modeling industry I can only guess that this book revels a lot of how fucked up this industry is towards women.
Graphic: Body shaming, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Addiction, Death, Drug use, and Alcohol
lilaw's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Addiction, Drug abuse, Drug use, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Medical content, Pregnancy, and Alcohol
krissyyne's review against another edition
3.75
Emily Ratajkowski is not someone I knew well before reading this book. I had first heard of her when she chose to raise her (now son, as I understand) as someone with they/them pronouns. It was an interesting thing to hear, especially as she was the first major person I'd heard of doing something like that. Her status as a model, though, was what made me follow her. It's what made me follow Gigi and Bella Hadid, Kendall Jenner, and a slew of lesser known models whose posts I ate up while simultaneously wondering why I couldn't look like that.
I think her book is fascinating. In a world where models are both rewarded and villainized for their beauty, Emily seeks to explain the enigma behind being famous for her body. From her mother to friends to employers, being "beautiful" - a standard, palpable beautiful - was paramount. It gave Emily rewards in the form of validation and attention from older men and women. But it also came with unchecked pain as that attention devolved into (TW!!!) occurrences of stalking, rape, and sexual assault. It provided people with the ability to write her off, because her looks stereotyped her as dumb and unworldly.
I admire Emily. I admire her courage for writing what she did. It is no easy feat to bare yourself, physically and emotionally, on a public forum for people to encourage or disparage you as they wish. Her book, while maybe not the cleanest writing I've ever read, is brave and provides insight into the possible mindsights of models in a way I've never thought to think about before.
Moderate: Medical content, Death of parent, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Body shaming, Drug use, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Stalking
celevstial's review against another edition
Graphic: Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Cursing, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Grief, and Alcohol
hesterclark's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Sexual content
Minor: Drug use
opossumom's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Drug use, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Terminal illness
ymorii's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Drug use
Minor: Mental illness and Suicidal thoughts
leduyhxxng's review against another edition
3.0
In the twelve very personal essays, we can begin to see Emily's stories and the power dynamics that shape modelling. Yet her writing feels rather erratic, sparse in some places and rushed in others, failing at times to connect the thematic thread that Emily herself set out. This is most unfortunate because there are unquestioningly a lot of details and images—beautifully brought out in the essay collection—that feel particularly powerful in the context of her story, but were never adequately explored.
I admire Emily's effort to love through the writing of My Body. My two favourite essays are 'Pamela' and 'Releases'. They were brilliantly written (especially 'Releases,' the final essay of the book), and feel vulnerable and honest. Other essays either feel like the honesty is somehow choking her, the writing indelicate and forced thus choking us as readers, or throwing suppressed anger at other people (which makes it quite awkward to read). But the vulnerability makes you stay, and love Emily Ratajkowski even more for taking the step.
I was fairly let down by both the writing and storytelling of the book. Then again, I greatly admire the effort to find love.
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Grief, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Drug abuse
Minor: Drug use, Sexual content, Blood, Vomit, and Suicide attempt