Reviews tagging 'Rape'

My Body by Emily Ratajkowski

227 reviews

melanieripple's review against another edition

challenging inspiring reflective

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault and Rape

Moderate: Pedophilia and Pregnancy

Minor: Suicide and Drug use

odetojersey's review against another edition

emotional reflective medium-paced

3.5

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Sexual assault and Rape

Minor: Pregnancy

solouncapitulomas's review against another edition

emotional informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

4.3 but im giving 5 because I want to bust this book's rating

each essay left me either crying or fucking shocked but the "men like you" deserved a fucking pedestal of its own and that's all I'm gonna say

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, and Rape

Moderate: Body shaming and Sexism

maanbloem's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

4.5

I didn't expect to like it as much, since I have never read a celebrity memoir, which haven't always had the best of criticisms, but it is such a good book. Of course growing up and as an adult she had certain privileges, but in the end, she is also just a woman who has been taken advantage of (although that is an understatement). Raw at times, very reflective and wonderfully written. I hope she will keep on writing, because I loved the writing style.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual harassment, Rape, and Sexual assault

vanderyle's review against another edition

dark emotional informative inspiring sad medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual harassment, Rape, and Misogyny

Moderate: Alcohol and Chronic illness

a_love's review against another edition

dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Toxic relationship, Suicide, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Body shaming, Misogyny, Bullying, Sexual assault, Emotional abuse, Sexism, Rape, and Panic attacks/disorders

crawforl's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad fast-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug use, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Body shaming, Fatphobia, Alcohol, and Rape

Moderate: Eating disorder

babsi_222's review against another edition

challenging informative tense fast-paced

3.0

Honestly I think the book isn’t bad but I just personally didn’t like it. I agree with some of her opinions (Some!!) but I just sadly couldn’t sympathise with her at all. She repeated herself a lot which I did not like to this extent. The only chapter/ essay that I truly loved was ‘K-Spa’.
I longed for a pointe at the end and I think I kindaaa got it. I liked her on the last few pages better because it showed kinda why she wanted to write the book and like the moral of the story but I’m not really fulfilled. I don’t like how ‘not eating-being thin and tiny- smoking cigarettes to stay thin and everything” was just simply put like this in the book without a disclaimer or a “this is not healthy” or sth but maybe that’s the gen z in me talking. I know that the model world is/can be like this but I just wish that she would’ve said sth in the end about it somehow. She is not a role model for me. I also found that I don’t sympathies with her which makes me not like her. 
Also I don’t like her mother.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body horror, Fatphobia, Eating disorder, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, and Body shaming

nevertheless_she_reads's review against another edition

challenging hopeful informative reflective sad tense medium-paced

4.5

I bought Emily Ratjkowski's debut My Body from the cutest little indie bookstore Tombolo Books while vacationing in Florida. 

My Body is a memoir and collection of essays about Emily's life as a model, and her life following her big break to fame in Robin Thicke's music video, Blurred Lines. She candidly talks about the realities of being seen as a commodity, someone controlled by the media and rich men. I've seen this book hailed as a Feminist read, and found myself waiting for the big aha moment where she finally yells a giant "F YOU" to misogyny and the false pretenses that beauty comes from outside validation, rather than from within...But that doesn't really happen. 
 Emily is an amazing writer, and I was so immersed in her words, finding certain phrases relatable to my decades-old, once-naive notions that beauty is defined by how others see us. Her story sheds a glaring light on the realities of celebrity culture and how toxic the industry of fame is. As someone who has slept in her car, and rationed out dollars to ensure she could eat, Emily talks about how her body became a commodity that launched her toward success - if success were defined as having loads of money and people fawning over your beauty. From a young age, Emily was constantly complimented on her beauty, which altered her sense of belonging to others and being controlled by how others view her. I appreciate how she recognizes the problems with this truth. And it's apparent that she also recognizes how much more her body is capable of, sharing in her final chapter the wonders of being pregnant and giving birth to her little boy. 

"My body knows. Of course physical sensations, just like rage, have purpose. They are signals, indicators, meant to lead us to truths. But I don't listen, for fear of what they might reveal." 

I really enjoyed reading this book and felt so many emotions, including rage, sympathy and disgust, while reading Emily's story. It was really eye-opening and I'm grateful for the way it made me think and process my own views on beauty. 

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💫

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual harassment, Misogyny, and Sexual assault

Minor: Rape

jessiejonesbentley's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective relaxing sad fast-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Pregnancy, Cancer, Toxic relationship, Drug use, Grief, Sexism, Rape, Sexual violence, Stalking, Eating disorder, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Alcohol