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nosophiesallowed's review against another edition
4.5
this was hard to read but brilliant.
Graphic: Rape, Sexism, Alcohol, Mental illness, Misogyny, Suicidal thoughts, Body shaming, Sexual assault, Drug use, and Emotional abuse
inkdrinkers's review against another edition
4.0
When I heard about this book I was interested in it for multiple reasons: Emily Ratajkowski is a well known model and actress, often looked at as a sex symbol and heralded as a dream woman for a lot of men. I remember, distinctly, a frat guy that I knew in college telling me once that she was the ultimate girl.
What's important about this is that this set of essays is specifically about the author and her experiences in her own body. She clarifies this up front and from the beginning, she's not setting out to comment on anyone else's experiences but her own. Yes, her lifestyle isn't something many people can relate to, but there's a raw, frenetic energy to the way she writes and slices specific moments from her life - just to lay them out on the page for others to consume.
I really enjoyed all the essays in this book. Though raw and unflinching, and sometimes surface level, they were so interesting and intense to read. She doesn't shy away from moments that others might gloss over or omit entirely and I really loved the anger and fierceness in her voice as the essays transformed towards the end to show a stronger, angrier view.
I will say that this book contains a lot of triggering material. At the heart its about the consent that was often ripped away from Emily as her body was used as an object in various forms and fashions. Assault is discussed openly and without frills, sometimes nauseating to read about how commonplace it became for her to expect that someone would try to take advantage.
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Misogyny, and Sexism
This book details multiple times the author was raped or assaulted. The events are discussed on page in a reflective manner. Some happened as a child and others happened as a young adult. Disordered eating and commentary about bodies is present as the author discusses her experience in the modeling and film industry. Sexism and misogyny towards women are rampant in many instances of the author's past.arthur_ant18's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Sexism, Sexual harassment, Misogyny, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Alcohol, Fatphobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Pregnancy, and Rape
Minor: Drug abuse, Forced institutionalization, Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, and Medical content
katreads2022's review against another edition
3.75
Moderate: Rape, Sexual harassment, Misogyny, Sexism, and Sexual assault
kaylinvm94's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Sexism and Body shaming
Moderate: Sexual assault
ceci_cc's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Sexual assault and Rape
Moderate: Sexism
Minor: Suicidal thoughts and Mental illness
_charlottegrace's review against another edition
4.25
Moderate: Sexual harassment, Rape, Sexual assault, Dysphoria, Sexual content, and Sexual violence
Minor: Sexism
gteng's review against another edition
3.25
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Drug use, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Stalking, Toxic friendship, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Medical content, Pregnancy, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Body shaming, and Sexual harassment
chrissisbookclub's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Sexism, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Terminal illness and Toxic relationship
ablais2248's review against another edition
4.75
Moderate: Chronic illness, Drug use, Misogyny, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, Rape, Pregnancy, and Sexism