Reviews tagging 'Toxic relationship'

Sick: A Memoir by Porochista Khakpour

4 reviews

lowbrowhighart's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

3.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Medical content, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Gaslighting, Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Suicidal thoughts, Drug abuse, and Panic attacks/disorders

Moderate: Car accident, Alcohol, Drug use, Domestic abuse, Racism, Rape, Xenophobia, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship

Minor: Miscarriage, Self harm, and Islamophobia

chronicallyplotting's review against another edition

dark informative reflective sad slow-paced

1.0

This memoir is about an author who goes through a long struggle with her health and is ultimately diagnosed with end stage lime disease. And her struggles of also being an addict. She goes through what many with a hard to diagnose illness go through and that is medical trauma and being dismissed not only by medical professionals but her peers and family. 
What I could not understand is how the author did not have any personal growth from this or takeaways to help anyone else from her medical journey. It was disheartening that she never fought for herself or advocated for a diagnosis. The author even indicated in her book that she became the patient no doctor or nurse wanted to work with because she was whining all the time for things; she became a person who loved medical attention and wanted to be waited on. She wanted people to care for her and used her friends also. I was hoping for a story of how someone overcame addiction or a medical crises that they had to fight to overcome and get care. Because I personally know the struggle to find good care, but it instead was a book of a person who does not like America but lives here and has a political agenda versus a message about her health journey. She focuses widely on anti-trump rants and Anit-American healthcare rants but offers no solutions to change or how any of it personally impacted her. And it was a person who thinks they are the best author in the world who probably has a tinge of Munchausen disease. 

Being a person of the chronic illness community myself I was so hoping for more of a survival story, even if it doesn't have a happy ending. Instead I got a political platform and a woman who craves attention and anyone who doesn't give it to her must be racist. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Gaslighting, Suicide attempt, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail, Chronic illness, Racism, Toxic friendship, Car accident, Miscarriage, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Xenophobia, Addiction, Medical content, Drug abuse, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Sexism

ssreadsintranslation's review

challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Drug abuse, Drug use, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, and Suicidal thoughts

Moderate: Car accident

Minor: Islamophobia, Xenophobia, Miscarriage, Toxic relationship, and Physical abuse

festive_fossil's review

challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced

4.75

I 'read' the audiobook of this, and finished it in two sittings.  A truly excellent memoir that explores dealing with undiagnosed chronic disease and battling addiction. I found a lot to identify with in this book, as I have also dealt with a chronic disease, the years-long quest for diagnosis - though on a much less extreme scale I am thankful to say. I would recommend this to anyone who wants to learn more about what the experience of having chronic disease is like. Khakpour is explicit that this is not a triumphal narrative, so be prepared for that.

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Content Warnings

Minor: Sexual violence, Drug abuse, Xenophobia, and Toxic relationship