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Beautiful Country by Qian Julie Wang

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drlainie's review against another edition

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3.0


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hollydyer328's review against another edition

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3.0

Certainly a challenging story of Qian Julie Wang's experience growing up as an undocumented Chinese immigrant in New York City, and her navigating barriers of poverty and healthcare. The story is solely focused on her childhood from ages ~7-11, and it went into specific details that I felt were unnecessary and slowed down the pacing. My favorite was the last 2 chapters and I wanted to hear more of her experience as she got older and dealt with the demons from her childhood. 

Because the story is so focused on these ~5 years of her life in the US, the memoir came off as her processing childhood trauma. It's pretty bleak throughout with little redemption or coming of age, except it is slightly mentioned by the very end. This story almost feels too personal for the general public to read (and purchase), and I'm not sure what the takeaways are other than awareness and empathy for one account of the undocumented immigrant experience. 

I listened on audio read by the author, and the narration was helpful for the pronunciation of Chinese phrases, but the tone lacked the emotion that would have enhanced the story. 

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maryclaire92's review against another edition

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5.0

Beautiful and devastating. The author of this memoir stunningly tells the story of her early life as an undocumented immigrant in New York through the lens of her childhood self. Only made more captivating by the audiobook which is narrated by the author. Easiest 5 star rating I have ever given.

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taylorfield's review against another edition

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2.5

April 2024 Book Club read

Long Story Short: At 5-years-old, Qian Julie Wang and her mother left China for the “Beautiful Country” to reunite with her father, who’d been in the US for two years already. This memoir follows the strife, sacrifice, and resilience of the next five years through the lens of a child’s eyes. 

<blockquote>“There was a Chinese idiom I came to know later because Ma Ma and Ba Ba would repeat it to me in those moments: “Purple comes from blue but is superior to blue.” It was inevitable, they seemed to believe, that I would one day outshine them in the best and worst ways.”</blockquote>

I greatly admire Qian Julie Wang’s bravery to share her childhood trauma and the imperfections of her family, and as a random reader I’m not owed any further acknowledgement or explanations of her life’s story and experience in America. At the same time, because so many explanations were left out, I found myself having to guess about catalysts, intentions, and reasonings. <i>Beautiful Country</i> reads more like a child’s diary, which is fine, but not what I expected based on the blurb and “How It Began” sections. So many things were glossed over despite them feeling really important.

Enjoyment: 2/5
Craft: 3/5
Overall: 2.5/5

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dominicangirl's review against another edition

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shortstackz's review against another edition

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3.5

This is a tough read for anyone who has experienced childhood food insecurity. Qian has a very lyrical writing style, leaving the reader to infer a lot about the inner lives of her parents throughout the story. It centers around the years where they were undocumented in the US, and I wish she delved more into the aftermath and unpacking of it. The lart chapter is a sprint through her adulthood, I would have liked to see how her life in Canada further contrasted against her Chinese and American lives. Particularly as she focused on her mother's journey throughout the memoir. It's easy to forget the political context of their move, especially when you see the glaring mysogyny of the father. A tough family dynamic between all involved, and a family struggling to find safe haven.

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danahuff's review against another edition

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5.0

I reviewed this book on my blog.

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xeniba's review against another edition

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4.5

I felt this was beautifully written, though difficult to read at times because of the trauma the author experienced. I’m grateful to the author for being so transparent and sharing her story.

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parasolcrafter's review against another edition

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5.0

it always feels so odd to me, in some way, to talk about and rate memoirs because its somebodys life that youre, in essence, putting a number value on, so rather than try and do that ill just say that i loved the way Qian spoke about her life in the most intimate way that somebody can do; giving us the bad times, the good times, the scary times, and the times that maybe didnt paint her in the best light.

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