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The Rest of Us Just Live Here by Patrick Ness

britt_99's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

Had a rough start with this one. Fell in love along the way. Would have given it a 3.5 but the lesbian teacher never came back into play at any part in the plot so I took away the .5. The reason it’s not any higher stars as well is just simply bc the start was really rough and I thought the world building and introduction could have been done wayyy better.  Absolutely adored the character writing tho and how realistic a lot of the relationships were. 

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3.0

I think this book is very well-written, and since I've read The Knife of Never Letting Go, it shouldn't have surprised me that it's not exactly a light read, but the heaviness of it did surprise me. That's not a complaint about the book, it's a personal thing as I was hoping for something more light-hearted and funny about being the normal kid stuck with having to deal with the aftermath of the havoc the Specials tend to wreck.

More complete review to come.

Full review:

This book was a bizarre reading experience. Having read Patrick Ness's The Knife of Never Letting Go, I was frankly surprised when I first saw this book, as its description made it sound like a light-hearted romp of a book, one in which the reader gets to see what it's like to be one of the not-Special kids who have to deal with the destructive aftermath of the Specials' struggles against the big, bad evil. Some spoilers to follow.

I was really looking forward to reading that book. However, what I found contained in this book's pages is not that light-hearted story. Essentially, this is a contemporary novel with some supernatural elements woven into it, and the blend isn't always smooth. It gives the book an overall uneven feel that prevented me from really getting into it, because the whole time I was reading it I kept switching back and forth from "it's urban fantasy" to "it's a contemporary novel".

The urban fantasy elements mostly comes from the brief descriptions that kick off each chapter, in which Ness provides a summary of what the interestingly-named Special kids (the book refers to these characters as "Indie Kids", a label that doesn't make much sense to me, frankly) are up to. These were some of my favorite sections in the book, as they provide a wry bit of satire that pokes what feels to me like gentle and loving fun at some of the worst tropes of the YA/Middle Grade fantasy/sci-fi genre. Though the summaries are typically only a few sentences, they are packed with plenty of the teenage angst, love triangles, and betrayals that seem inevitable when you're reading genre YA fiction. Yet even as Ness is making fun of genre tropes, I get the impression he has a sincere appreciation for those genres, so I never found the summaries to be too acerbic. A few in particular abounded with wit, and I often laughed at them.

As for the contemporary side, I will say this: Ness can write. His prose has a stark quality to it, though I don't think it's particularly spare. Sometimes when I read books, I feel like the author is overreaching when trying to make the reader feel for the characters, ending up tipping into melodrama. Not so with Ness. He has a plain way of stating the facts of his characters' struggles and laying them out in bald words that made me really feel their pain. This book deals with some gritty stuff: anorexia, Alzheimer's Disease, and obsessive compulsive disorder, just to name a few.

The family dynamic in this book is fraught, with Mike's and Mel's mother being an ambitious politician who tends to use her family to full effect, while their father is an alcoholic who can't deal with his wife's ambition. Their little sister, Meredith, is a prodigy, something their mother encourages with a lot of vigor. At first Meredith felt like a caricature, but then the book does something I was so happy to see a YA book doing: it fleshed her out and portrayed her as a full-fledged character, while also creating a very believable dynamic between her and her older siblings. This was another of my favorite aspects of the story, and I really enjoyed seeing how Mel, Mike, and Meredith learned to forge strong bonds with one another, clinging together even as their parents' blatant neglect of them threatens to tip each of them over the ledge. I was especially touched by later chapters, in which Meredith expresses her distress at the thought of being left behind by Mike and Mel when they go off to college the following year.

There's also a love triangle of sorts in the book: Mike is in love with his longtime friend Henna, who can't stop thinking about the new kid, Nathan. I didn't like this aspect of the book as much. Mike has a pretty unhealthy obsession with Henna, and some of his behavior is downright distasteful. I could never quite put my finger on Henna herself as some of her behavior seems kind of erratic--not as if she's going off the deep end or something, but more as if I never had a clear picture of who she was and what she stood for because those aspects of her personality seemed to keep changing. She puts up with more from Mike than I thought was realistic at times.

Mike's relationship with Jared is better, though there's a plot twist with regard to Jared I think I'd have preferred to have left out of the book entirely. Otherwise, I liked Jared and had a strong picture of him as a character. I liked how Ness explored Mike's jealousy at Jared's highly functional relationship with his father, but slowly peeled back the curtain so that Mike begins to understand that everyone has their own problems and issues, and that it's really not helpful to create an idealized view of others.

The urban fantasy aspect of the novel and the contemporary aspect of it collide on several occasions, and while I suspect Ness had a bit of a message here, that you don't have to be a person with mythic powers to experience a good deal of real life trauma and upheaval, when the worlds collide it feels too much like an interruption. Ultimately, I pretty much wished the urban fantasy elements had been chucked altogether, and that this book had been a straight-up contemporary book. I think it might have been stronger for it in the end.

Though I'm not going to lie: I kind of hope Ness writes that other book, the one about the Indie kids and their destinies.

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2.0

2.5 stars

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adventurous emotional funny mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Custom Rating: Rewired My DNA/5

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4.0

I was really expecting not to like this book, because I have heard so many people say that it was a major let-down. However, I thought this book was hilarious and lots of fun. The story line always intrigued me, and Patrick Ness did not disappoint. There was a ton of representation in here, which I really appreciated (although some of them could have been introduced into the story more smoothly). My absolute favorite part about this book, though, is the relationship between Mike and Mel. It was so refreshing to see, especially since my brother and I are very close as well; I truly loved this portrayal of siblings.

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5.0

This was an amazing book! Really creative concept and I loved (most of) the characters.

Highly recommended. :)

littlewit's review

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adventurous dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

yoyofro's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

It was there for me when I needed it. Helps reframe your look on life and where you are in it.

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adventurous emotional funny hopeful lighthearted mysterious reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

A bizarre yet strangely authentic coming of age story about a group of teens who are the background characters to the classic ‘chosen ones’ narrative

I went into this thinking it would be more ‘Sky High’ and so was a bit sad to learn that the fantasy elements are more background elements but it was a fantastic look at what the classic ‘chosen one’ story looks like from the POV of the background characters 

I really loved the chosen one summaries at the beginning of each chapter as a way to link the chaos that happens between their story and the friends who you are actually reading about 

The reflections of OCD, ED and anxiety were so realistic it made me well up multiple times and really yearn for the characters 

Overall a fun read with heart warming (and heart wrenching) elements about growing up and the next stage of life. 

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3.0

This book was pretty -meh- for me. At the beginning of each chapter, you see what the "indie" kids (who would've been the main characters in any other story) are up to while main characters are dealing with their own personal drama. I kept hoping throughout the book that Mikey and his friends would end up getting involved with the background plot that the indie kids were involved in. As some other reviews have mentioned, I liked the concept of following the background characters a lot more than the execution.