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Iris Kelly Doesn't Date by Ashley Herring Blake
88 reviews
booksandcoffeewithlexi's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
inspiring
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Vomit, Panic attacks/disorders, and Sexual content
cwbillings's review against another edition
adventurous
funny
hopeful
inspiring
lighthearted
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
“Iris Kelly Doesn’t Date” just warmed me up to romance novels FAST. I’ve never been a huge fan of romance as a genre but man is this book in particular changing my mind! This is well written, the characters believable and genuine, and so gosh darn sweet. I really love this one and found myself relating to the main characters, which I should’ve seen coming as a bisexual writer with a decade of theatre experience myself lol Ugh, what can I say?? Now I’m a Stevie + Iris shipper for life!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Toxic friendship, Mental illness, Bullying, Toxic relationship, and Infidelity
Minor: Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, Drug use, Homophobia, Eating disorder, and Dysphoria
hazel_oat's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
this one is hard to rate for me b/c it will have the most beautifully written chapter of stevie trying her absolute fucking best followed by iris bumbling around making all the obviously-this-is-the-dumbest-choice choices … so prepare for whiplash?
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness, Sexual content, and Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Body shaming, Vomit, and Alcohol
Minor: Biphobia, Infidelity, and Emotional abuse
auteaandtales's review
emotional
funny
lighthearted
relaxing
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I absolutely loved this. Very theatrical and messy, but great fun. I loved getting to know Iris, but my favourite of the two was Stevie. I really related to her struggle with anxiety. It might be my favourite of the three, but I can’t decide, as I loved all of them for a different reason. I can see myself re-reading the trilogy in the future as a comfort read.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders and Mental illness
aseel_reads's review against another edition
funny
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
While I appreciated the struggles the main characters went through and parts were funny, I wasn't as invested in this one, compared to the first two
Content Warnings
Moderate: Toxic friendship, Sexual content, Panic attacks/disorders, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Infidelity, and Biphobia
e_riahh's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content, Toxic friendship, Panic attacks/disorders, Abandonment, Alcohol, Emotional abuse, and Toxic relationship
author2223's review against another edition
funny
lighthearted
reflective
relaxing
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders and Mental illness
Moderate: Vomit, Emotional abuse, and Toxic relationship
wisewayfarer's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
lighthearted
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders and Sexual content
Moderate: Cursing, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
fromjuliereads's review against another edition
funny
hopeful
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
While I loved the anxiety rep and did still enjoy this one, it was my least favourite of the 3 surprisingly. It was still a good read! Just not my favourite in the series.
It was great having the friend groups as big parts of it!
It was great having the friend groups as big parts of it!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, Mental illness, Vomit, Cursing, Panic attacks/disorders, and Alcohol
Anxiety is heavily featured, internalized trauma from past relationshipsmx_sunshine's review against another edition
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
I had fun reading this book. I love reading romances involving women. And I enjoyed the queer interpretation of Shakespeare.
But I feel that this book is the weakest of the Bright Falls Series.
The author employs questionable time jumps (2 weeks later and 6 months later) to skip over what would have been interesting scenes.
I really enjoyed Stevie, I thought she was written very well. I liked reading about how she dealt with Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD). I found it interesting that Stevie is the first character in this series to have a diagnosed mental illness, given queer people have higher risks of developing mental illness. GAD is also one of the most common conditions to appear with additional mental illnesses. So it is an interesting choice for Stevie to only have GAD. Stevie’s growth was the strongest. But there is a lack of development from side characters. They are brought in when convenient, to move the plot along.
I felt it was a bit unrealistic that Iris has suddenly become an author, as well as an artist. I found it hard to believe that Iris drew real scenes from memory.
Iris’ family were introduced all at once in the beginning. They are discarded for the length of the book, only to reappear near the ending. Interactions with friends are interwoven throughout, but it feels like they are sitting on the sidelines waiting to be called in. I didn’t feel like their lives were continuing outside of the main story.
I also didn’t believe the friendship between Vanessa, Adri, and Ren. The author makes a point to tell the reader about their 10 year friendship. But their bond isn’t shown.
Van also reads as a very flat character. She is extremely beautiful and friendly. Every character notes her beauty. She solely exists as Adri’s partner and is not developed on further.
The characters have always been conventionally attractive. I thought it was interesting that the non-binary character had such a strong feminine presentation. They consistently wore makeup, heels and nail polish.
The fake dating trope also wasn’t employed as I had expected. There wasn’t much yearning or uncertainty around potential unrequited feelings. It seemed to settle quite quickly as the protagonists suddenly realised their feelings.
While the cast of characters is technically diverse, I didn’t feel this was integral to the story. Majority of the characters are queer and white. POC are described as such, but it’s not mentioned again. Ren is Japanese American, Vanessa is Latin American, Emery is Black. The only case where someone being a POC influenced their life were brief mentions of how Vanessa taught Latin American literature and decorated her apartment with Latin American art.
As an aside - for how prevalent Iris’ freckles are in the story, I’m surprised they aren’t a part of her character design on the book’s cover.
Also interesting how the book has included no praise for itself and instead refers to praise of her previous two books.
But I feel that this book is the weakest of the Bright Falls Series.
The author employs questionable time jumps (2 weeks later and 6 months later) to skip over what would have been interesting scenes.
I really enjoyed Stevie, I thought she was written very well. I liked reading about how she dealt with Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD). I found it interesting that Stevie is the first character in this series to have a diagnosed mental illness, given queer people have higher risks of developing mental illness. GAD is also one of the most common conditions to appear with additional mental illnesses. So it is an interesting choice for Stevie to only have GAD. Stevie’s growth was the strongest. But there is a lack of development from side characters. They are brought in when convenient, to move the plot along.
I felt it was a bit unrealistic that Iris has suddenly become an author, as well as an artist. I found it hard to believe that Iris drew real scenes from memory.
Iris’ family were introduced all at once in the beginning. They are discarded for the length of the book, only to reappear near the ending. Interactions with friends are interwoven throughout, but it feels like they are sitting on the sidelines waiting to be called in. I didn’t feel like their lives were continuing outside of the main story.
I also didn’t believe the friendship between Vanessa, Adri, and Ren. The author makes a point to tell the reader about their 10 year friendship. But their bond isn’t shown.
Van also reads as a very flat character. She is extremely beautiful and friendly. Every character notes her beauty. She solely exists as Adri’s partner and is not developed on further.
The characters have always been conventionally attractive. I thought it was interesting that the non-binary character had such a strong feminine presentation. They consistently wore makeup, heels and nail polish.
The fake dating trope also wasn’t employed as I had expected. There wasn’t much yearning or uncertainty around potential unrequited feelings. It seemed to settle quite quickly as the protagonists suddenly realised their feelings.
While the cast of characters is technically diverse, I didn’t feel this was integral to the story. Majority of the characters are queer and white. POC are described as such, but it’s not mentioned again. Ren is Japanese American, Vanessa is Latin American, Emery is Black. The only case where someone being a POC influenced their life were brief mentions of how Vanessa taught Latin American literature and decorated her apartment with Latin American art.
As an aside - for how prevalent Iris’ freckles are in the story, I’m surprised they aren’t a part of her character design on the book’s cover.
Also interesting how the book has included no praise for itself and instead refers to praise of her previous two books.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness and Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Toxic relationship and Vomit