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5.0

An important voice we must listen to.

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5.0

Wow. This is one of the best memoirs I have ever read. 

It hit on all levels, such an eye-opening, inspiring, reflective, and deeply personal read. The authors really did the subject’s stories justice. Ma-nee has lived many, many lives, and the world is lucky to have this published work to live on forever. 

I appreciated the afterwords of this book, that explained how the publication came to be, since the subject of the memoir has vision issues that would make writing a book from start to finish difficult. So much went into it, and it made me appreciate the book even more. 

Overall, this book is severely overlooked, and should be read by anybody who wants to better understand native (queer) identities and culture. 

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A gorgeous book. It has a lot going on in it but, ultimately, it's an uplifting story of a woman coming into her own and discovering herself. It's never too late to come out as queer.

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I am not used to reading autobiographies... I appreciate that Ma-Nee shared her story in this book. It feels very vulnerable, honest, and raw. 

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5.0

It’s hard to know where even to start here. This was incredible. First off, I want to give Ma-Nee Chacaby the biggest hug. I am so grateful that she has chosen to set her story to paper. Chacaby has faced unfathomable hardships in her life. The hits just kept on coming. That she has even survived, let alone come out the other side healthy and stable and able to recount these stories is remarkable. I bow down to her strength, resolve, spirituality, and ability to connect to love despite everything. Her stories really got me thinking about cycles of abuse. I’ve read briefly about how alcoholism is unfortunately common in many Native communities, especially among survivors of residential schools. But hearing about it first hand from Chacaby was something else entirely. (Not that she herself went to a residential school, but she faced unthinkable trauma regardless.) There are so many webs of abuse, addiction, poverty, and violence, and their intersections are deadly. Near the end of her memoir, Chacaby notes how there’s not many queer female Indigenous elders. She thinks about all her friends and family that have died along the way, often directly because of these webs of abuse. And then it got me thinking about how where these abuse cycles began, and it’s pretty much always white supremacy. I think it’s so important for white Americans and Canadians to listen to Indigenous stories, and reflect on how we can take part in disrupting these harmful cycles. Chacaby‘s story as a disabled, lesbian, two spirit Ojibwa-Cree is one I will never forget.

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