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On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong

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alyssadavis's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

The children, the veal, they stand very still because tenderness depends on
how little the world touches you. To stay tender, the weight of your
life cannot lean on your bones.

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mel_sh's review against another edition

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slow-paced
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5.0

 “When does a war end? When can I say your name and have it mean only your name and not what you left behind?”

the words are honestly failing me right now
this book transcends everything that we know about what a novel should look like and transforms it into one of the most gut wrenching and lyrical reading experiences i’ve ever had. as the daughter of two immigrants of war, there was so much that hit close to home for me and as someone who didn’t know much about the Vietnam war, there is so much that i was able to learn. there are so many quotes i could have included in here, this whole book was just an absolute masterpiece.

“I am writing because they told me to never start a sentence with because. But I wasn't trying to make a sentence—I was trying to break free. Because freedom, I am told, is nothing but the distance between the hunter and its prey.” 

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ashleyann's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced
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4.5


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booksarebrainfood's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful inspiring reflective tense medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0


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emmaopaline's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional funny reflective relaxing sad slow-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0


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samarakroeger's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25


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internationalreads's review against another edition

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challenging dark fast-paced

4.5


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caregorman's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective fast-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I’m going to think about this forever 

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iseefeelings's review against another edition

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challenging emotional sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A

4.0

What should you do with somebody's field of memory that slowly clings to your heart and shakes yours?

The narrator - Little Dog - roams in the past and present in which stories of three generations intertwine. Reading On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous invokes my turbulence in the past, how an act of endurance is (on some level) so familiar to children growing up in complex family backgrounds. The author’s marginalised identity resonates with my frustration – often rooted in the multicultural childhood I grew up with and in passive discrimination of race and social class since I moved to a new country.

Even when reading in a foreign language other than my mother tongue doesn't make the violence motif in the Vietnam War easier to indulge. Vuong scattered a few scenes of brutality which are essential to bringing out the narrator's family history yet they were all so powerful. Indeed, I had a hard time flipping through the scene of a group of men slicing the brain of a live macaque monkey.

Trauma. Sex. Death. Violence. Love. Ocean Vuong describes them masterly and his words enhanced one’s personal experiences and filled all the gaps in between — perpetually adding to one’s mind a whole picture like no other. I haven’t read much fiction in the last few years and this book pulls me back to the fascination of reading fiction: how it extends beyond your account and you live more than one life for a moment through imagination and the craft of writing. Line by line, the words appear lyrically and elliptically in Ocean Vuong's prose poem. The originality in Vuong's work is astonishing, or as a writer on Los Angeles Times put it, "an outpouring of emotion". It has the momentum of a good epistolary novel and the intimacy of a true letter which the readers only have the privilege to know in hindsight.

Towards the end of the book, there is a moment when a white man (the narrator's grandfather) utters broken words to say goodbye to his first love - the narrator’s grandmother - my heart sank and I held my tears. I don’t know why I had to hold it in, though. It’s too real.

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anaya_reads's review against another edition

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challenging emotional informative inspiring reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Went into this blind and did not expect it to tackle so many subjects. The writing was devastatingly beautiful and brought such a light to immigrants and they’re children.  

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