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You Could Be So Pretty by Holly Bourne

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alexisaflop's review

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challenging emotional reflective
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

I love holly Bourne and I always care so much about her characters. I enjoyed this book and the development of the characters but I wish the ending was a little longer. I want to see Joni and belles reaction past their sort of primal reaction at the end. I love the closure Joni got but don't love how belle didn't get that same closure (I would love to see the decisions they both make in light of the events at the end of the book as I think that would show how much they have developed). 
I enjoyed how Bourne touched on some intersectionality and I think I would love this book more if it had a sequel.

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thoughtsofastar's review

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

This book is so valuable. It talks of all the ways girls and women are subjected to violence, abuse and inequality. In a Doctrine-obsessed town, Belle lives a life that does not belong to her, a life where all money and time is spent on making sure she looks Pretty. But for Joni, life is different. She does not follow the rules of the Doctrine, but her life isn't easier because of it. She's ignored and laughed at for her brilliant ideas and wisdom and hopes. When Belle finally sees her, their lives change for good. Uprooted from the Doctrine and spun into a completely new, realer person Belle can finally accept her life has not been perfect, and with Joni at her side, she's finally ready to do something about it. But their town isn't ready for this uprising, and no matter who they are or how they look, it's always the girls who must pay. 

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amber_bookworm's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

What a book to start the year with. Powerful, evocative, an excellent read. The only thing that stopped me from rating 5 stars was some of the linguistic choices at times by the author which felt a bit jarring. Would definitely recommend.

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goatsrsexy's review against another edition

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fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

Okay this book was definitely giving Barbie (movie) in a lot of ways. 1. It was an entertaining and interesting story that had something to say. 2. The social commentary was 100% right and told in an accessible way. 3. It was not made for people who already care about this stuff.

I'm not saying if you're educated on feminist and gender equality you won't like this book. It's a good book, but I was definitely left disappointed that it didn't take things a little further or hit a little harder. The potential was definitely there, but so were the cringy monologues.

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leah08855's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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rosiebethreads's review

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

I really think this book would have benefited from a glossary, I’m an adult reader and sometimes was a bit confused by the word swapping. If the aim here is to introduce teens to the patriarchal society we live in I do think we should use those words - empower through language! 

I also found some of the swaps counterproductive - calling p*rn “smut” for example I feel moralises romance that includes sex on page often coequally known by romance readers as, smut. I also am not completely on bored with the cause-and-effect message created of porn = teenagers to abuse one another it’s a bit video games make people violent. 

Moreover, I would have loved to have seen a girl who sat somewhere in between a pretty and an objectionable - what happens when only some things are negotiated? 

However saying all that - you could be so pretty is a page turner, the characters are engaging and I loved the friendship between Joni and belle and the mother daughter relationships. I also really loved its focus on education and how it is not a safe space for all girls.

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lonely_leafairy's review

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emotional hopeful inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

One of the best books I have ever read. An amazing read, which many claim are dystopian, but it really is what is happening on some women’s day-to-day life. It made me angry, I’ll never cover my blemishes the same way again. I’ll never judge people without thinking twice now. It ruled me up, made me angry, but it caused emotion. That’s what I want from a book. And for anyone who is wondering, there is a hint of WLW romance, though they just kind of brush me off (another reason why this isn’t a five star book)

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ianb's review

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emotional inspiring sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Before I Get Started, this book can be quite triggering. In the authors words,” it deals with many real issues including eating disorders, domestic abuse, sexual harassment and assault, pornography and misogyny.”

“This Isn’t Dystopia. This isn’t a fiction. THIS IS NOW. NORMAL. OUR WORLD TODAY”. 
I have been a huge fan of Bourne’s for several years now and when I saw that she had another YA book out, I was in too minds as I know it’s a genre that I’m reding less and less but once again she has not disappointed with this one, a holding a light up to our social conventions and asking us to consider to what extent we choose to be compliant in this environment.

I think for Women, Girls this is a book that you/they are going to relate to on so many levels. This explores the extremely high expectations that society has placed on the appearance of women and girls and with this being a topic that has been in the Press and what seems like everywhere, with filter at the palm of your hands. This books tackles that and inequality in such a clever way. 

As a teen in high school, or more aptly named in the novel, your “Just Right” years, you can either be Pretty, or you can be Objectionable. This book holds a dual point of view where Belle is Pretty, someone who always wears Masks and follows strict eating habits and beauty regimes whilst being rewarded for this behaviour, and Joni is Objectionable, an outspoken, Mask-less, “abomination” who does not follow the social norms and ascribe to any beauty regime whilst being ostracized and humiliated by society.

”Choice means nothing if you feel you have no other option than to choose what everyone chooses. Choice means nothing if there are significant consequences for not following the established path.”

You Could Be So Pretty shows a society that awards beauty with validation and has consequences for anyone who doesn’t fit the Criteria, including fat women, older women, women with features that aren’t acceptable, poor women, and women who are outspoken, to name a few.

This is a book which will provoke numerous emotions: awe, sadness, anger, guilt, envy. It is so cleverly written and one I will be sharing with as many people as possible. 

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etoile75's review

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challenging dark emotional informative tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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amyashcroft's review

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

You Could Be So Pretty is a dystopia written with feminism at its core, set in a world in which the majority of women “Mask” at the beginning of each day, and those who do not are seen as outcasts. 

The novel is split between the perspectives of Joni and Belle, Joni rejects the rules of the Doctrine and doesn’t Mask, and Belle is striving to be a Pretty and is working hard to keep up appearances to win the Ceremony. Despite there differences, they’re both fighting for a scholarship for the Education and are forced to spend more and more time together in order to prepare. 

This book is so head-on with the issues of the beauty industry and sexism in modern society. Bourne doesn’t shy away from the  gritty details and of her own criticisms of normalised sexism that is experienced by teenage girls, highlighting modern issues from porn to eating disorders and the impact these have on beauty standards. I also thoroughly enjoyed the theme of ageism in society; how the main characters are teenage girls, but we also get to learn how society treats the women around them and how their mothers react to the effects of aging. 

You Could Be So Pretty is often hard to read, but there are clear trigger warnings for the issues at the start of the book, which is greatly appreciated, as well as support information at the end. This is definitely an older YA novel, probably best for 16+, I’m 22 and struggled to read some of the content! Holly Bourne was able to critique so many different areas of society and by retitling many of the words used to similar ones, it allowed me to read these difficult topics and feel a separation, helping it feel less overwhelming but still have an impact. 

I absolutely devoured this book and cannot wait to discuss it with others when it’s published! 

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