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You Could Be So Pretty by Holly Bourne

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home_in_books's review

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challenging emotional inspiring tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Even though I gave 5 stars to this book, I cannot say that reading it has been an enjoyable experience. In fact, this novel made me often feel uncomfortable and sometimes it hit too close to home. In fact, even though I believe that everyone should read it at least once in their lifetime, I must warn you to check the trigger warnings before getting into it. Personally, if I had read it a couple years ago, I would’ve been destroyed by it. 
The book should become a feminist manifesto because, as the author said at the end, that is not dystopia but our sad reality. It centres body and beauty standards in our society, it questions our way of viewing women, sex, love and many other things. It’s not just a beautiful story of two girls finding themselves, but also an invitation to consider how many of the things they say seem exaggerated but are actually part of our culture. 
The author writing also really struck me and her way to represent perfectly how girls feel everyday. 
I’m really looking forward to reading another of her books, but I have to wait to be in the mood for it otherwise I won’t be able to stand the read. 

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alexisaflop's review

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challenging emotional reflective
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

I love holly Bourne and I always care so much about her characters. I enjoyed this book and the development of the characters but I wish the ending was a little longer. I want to see Joni and belles reaction past their sort of primal reaction at the end. I love the closure Joni got but don't love how belle didn't get that same closure (I would love to see the decisions they both make in light of the events at the end of the book as I think that would show how much they have developed). 
I enjoyed how Bourne touched on some intersectionality and I think I would love this book more if it had a sequel.

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kie111k's review

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challenging emotional informative inspiring reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

I enjoyed the book, and its exploration of societal standards and the 'unofficial' laws that dictate the lives of women and young girls- especially the inclusion of queer people and different races within the feminist message.
However I also thought that the message was very powerfully hinted at from the very beginning- and whilst this made it clear and presented it nicely, it also took away the chance of a deeper realisation for the characters; as it almost felt like we sort of watched them have these realisations from afar, rather than go through it with them. (if that makes any sense.)

Also I feel like Joni was given too much responsability as a character- like the whole plot of her being one of few 'truly awakened' kids was a very important part of the story, but I almost saw it as condescending to the other characters? in a way? that Joni knew everything and anything about this point of view so much so that she had the power to 'awaken' other kids. It sort of took away from the freeing aspects of  the feminism movement that Joni didnt help Belle subtly at all and literally said "im going to awaken her". I dont know if this is unfounded but I just thought it kinda presented Joni as the person educating and gave her this weird power over her peers when in reality, though shes privy to the tricks of her society, she doesnt really have the ability (i would say) to force her view onto others even if it is objectivly right. I think id have preferred a slower, more subtle/built up realisation from Belle that came more from her understanding through experience and emotional change  (helped by Joni!!) rather than being talked at, and having to accept a lecture that, from her point of view, was basically being forced on her. Belle went through some amazing character development and i think there was room for Joni to aswell where she may have lacked some come the end of the book.

saying that though, the book was lovely! I really did enjoy the unstable relationship dynamic between Joni and Belle that developed as the book went on, and how they kinda got to see the world from eachothers point of view near to the end. I also, despite my qualms with the context, really REALLY  enjoyed  Jonis long monolouge about beauty standards and the damning repetitive circle they create and suck women and girls into- and how applicable it is to modern society and social media.

The family background for both characters was also super interesting and i love the way that whilst they were so different, there were similar, and very in depth feelings and issues in the relationships with both the girls and their parents. Nothing can be perfect 100% of the time and I think Holly Bourne was successful in showing that through how Joni reacted to her mother and vice versa, and how Belle did with her mother and  father.
Overall, great book! Would recomend perhaps to a reader who is slightly less versed in feminist literature as this book is very clear and solid with the message its aiming to get across and what is standing in the way of it in both this dystopia and oir modern world.

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xavreadsbooks's review

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emotional hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75


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annabelreadsandwrites's review

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75


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thoughtsofastar's review

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

This book is so valuable. It talks of all the ways girls and women are subjected to violence, abuse and inequality. In a Doctrine-obsessed town, Belle lives a life that does not belong to her, a life where all money and time is spent on making sure she looks Pretty. But for Joni, life is different. She does not follow the rules of the Doctrine, but her life isn't easier because of it. She's ignored and laughed at for her brilliant ideas and wisdom and hopes. When Belle finally sees her, their lives change for good. Uprooted from the Doctrine and spun into a completely new, realer person Belle can finally accept her life has not been perfect, and with Joni at her side, she's finally ready to do something about it. But their town isn't ready for this uprising, and no matter who they are or how they look, it's always the girls who must pay. 

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amber_bookworm's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

What a book to start the year with. Powerful, evocative, an excellent read. The only thing that stopped me from rating 5 stars was some of the linguistic choices at times by the author which felt a bit jarring. Would definitely recommend.

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goatsrsexy's review against another edition

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fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

Okay this book was definitely giving Barbie (movie) in a lot of ways. 1. It was an entertaining and interesting story that had something to say. 2. The social commentary was 100% right and told in an accessible way. 3. It was not made for people who already care about this stuff.

I'm not saying if you're educated on feminist and gender equality you won't like this book. It's a good book, but I was definitely left disappointed that it didn't take things a little further or hit a little harder. The potential was definitely there, but so were the cringy monologues.

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bookishstevie's review

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challenging dark informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0


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olivia_b2509's review

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challenging emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

I would want more if the slight lgbtq element but that is a personal opinion and only very slight 

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