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5.0

If I could give this book a 10/5, I would.

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5.0


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4.5

The start of the book where she describes the trauma she went through growing up was difficult for me to get through. But I'm glad I did because reading her journey through her trauma and healing was something I absolutely needed at this time. The book touches on trauma, mostly parental abuse but also touches on generational, racial, and workplace trauma. I like how honest she is on what healing feels like — from the difficulties of finding a good therapist, to trying all kinds of different therapies (some of which work for her and some which don't), to including her therapy transcripts within the book. It makes it feel tangible and real, and she wonderfully weaves in some of the current science and theory about trauma to to make a book that feels both personal and broad. I leave the book feeling glad that her life is looking up and hopeful for my own.

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4.5

This book was so rough and still so important. Stephanie Foo writes a heart-breaking memoir of her traumatic upbringing and abusive parents and how she dealt with the resulting C-PTSD. There are mentions of racism and inter-generational trauma, as well as a dive into the current pandemic, and how her mental illness affected her through it. I felt so much for her and I'm relieved she has a better support system as an adult.

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5.0

really enlightening and pretty relatable.

started this months ago and put it down cuz it was too upsetting at that time, but i’m so glad i finished it. it’s hopeful, and the work the author put in to get better is admirable.

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5.0

The first 20% was rough, and I almost DNF. So glad I pushed through as it turned out to be a beautiful and moving story. 

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4.75


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5.0

Wow what an incredible memoir. Such a brutally honest personal account detailing childhood abuse and generational trauma.  And most importantly the journey of learning, understanding and healing from complex trauma. Sometimes hard to read, but so glad I did, a hopeful and compassionate story. 


Stephanie Foo; Malaysian Chinese American Author 

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3.75


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5.0


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