alexdicanio's review

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Disclaimer: I don’t rate memoirs.

This was an incredible memoir with a look at someone who has complex PTSD. If you’re thinking about reading this, please check trigger warnings

I loved the authors writing and style. This was so visceral and made me feel so many emotions from sadness to anger to joy and heartbreak. I highly recommend. 

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britbooth's review against another edition

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5.0


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jshapiro12's review

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5.0


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izarahiqb's review against another edition

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5.0

how does one speak about this book? i need to gather my thoughts. it’s definitely a lot better than the body keeps the score. 

“it’s not the fights that matter. it’s the repairs” i love this way of reframing conflict. 

there’s so many parts i’ve had to sit back and reflect on but for now i’ll just give that line. 

so vulnerable and informative yet heartbreaking in less than 300 pages 
i just wish i had a physical copy (which i will be purchasing) so i could add in my notes. very validating. love the tools she mentioned to help people in similar positions or on their own healing journey. love that she got the help she needed! i might be biased for giving it 5 stars given it’s my area of interest but it was so good! i’d recommend to anyone and everyone just to see a refreshing yet blunt perspective 

full review may be written once i have a copy of my own 

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jburkespraker's review

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5.0

Not sure what to add as a trigger warning because there a so many. I loved the short chapters and the way she pulls the audio recordings in at the end. 

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felishacb's review

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5.0


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thewrongkenna's review

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5.0

There’s a lot I could say about this book. I always find it weird to sort of rate memoirs / autobiographical writing because how can you rate someone’s life or experience? 

You could say that this book takes a while to get to “the point”, you could even say it never does. 

The book really feels like a journey, and as someone experiencing similar lessons as the author right now I can relate a lot. 

I appreciated the scientific elements, as well as the authors navigation of intersectionality and how that plays a part in trauma. 

I think for anyone who has experienced trauma and is at a point in their journey where maybe they want to seek out other’s stories  - this is a really beautiful book to accompany you. There are a lot of triggers within, so please read with caution. 

But just knowing that someone else out there has been through something similar. Knowing they didn’t always navigate their journey with grace, it gives you hope. 



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5.0


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4.75

‘There was a psychiatrist who tried to put me on Prozac. I quoted Brave New World. “I want to know what passion is! I want to feel something strongly!” The psychiatrist responded, “I think that passion might be a chemical imbalance.”’

‘I didn’t just understand the weight of my abuse logically. I felt it, like a blade through flesh, like a bone popping out of place. I felt it like a lover saying it’s not going to work: sharp, immediate, and terrifying. I actually felt, with searing clarity, the horror of what happened to me—maybe for the first time ever. I felt how tremendously sad it was that I was forced to make my parents feel loved at such a young age. I felt how courageous I must have been to endure that torture, day after day for so many years, by the people I trusted most in this world. I felt a sense of love and adoration for my childhood self that I’d never been able to summon before.’






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5.0


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