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The Girl Who Smiled Beads by Clemantine Wamariya

kgraham10's review against another edition

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4.0

Fascinating story of surviving as a child through horrific circumstances.

She is successful but still broken. I think of my refugee students, my children from foster care, my kids who have suffered loss at these younger ages, the other kids I know who have survived these situations. The kids in border tent camps. How will they heal? How will they find joy?

4* because the writing was immature or stilted.

nicolebliss's review against another edition

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challenging informative medium-paced

5.0

thelexingtonbookie's review against another edition

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3.0

This novel has been all over #bookstagram, reading lists, and bookstore recommendations, so when a friend of mine whose opinion I trust (hi Megan!) said definitely read it, I finally said okay and downloaded the audiobook.

In the novel, we are introduced to Rwandan refugee Clemantine (not like the Cutie clementines, but Clem-AAn-teen) and her rough upbringing. Forced to flee her home in Rwanda, she and her family bounced from refugee camp to camp. There was no getting comfortable anywhere, and as time passed, her family was slowly, painfully torn apart. Clemantine eventually gets the chance to immigrate to the United States and is taken in by a sponsor family, and as she grows up, she gets the opportunity to speak about her experience- including on Oprah- and to go to a prestigious college.

When the chance to return to her homeland is offered through her college, she goes only to find that so many things have changed, including herself and her personal identity. A little lost and confused, Clemantine has to piece herself, her life, and her roots back together. This is the story she shares with us all.

In the mix of this is the story of The Girl Who Smiles Beads, a story that stuck with Clemantine throughout the years. She relates to this character, and understands the struggle of a women who has what she most desperately wanted, but still feels incomplete.

The audiobook narrator (Robin Miles) did a fantastic job evoking Clemantine’s emotional tale, and there was a surprise treat of hearing the author’s additional commentary at the end. Though most of the novel was pretty heartbreaking, there were times where Clematine came off as a little arrogant- in the “you’ll never understand what I went through” sort of way- that made it a little difficult to empathize with her at times. The whole point of this kind of novel, in my opinion, is to help others understand what you went through, and it’s makes it more difficult when you purposefully keep them from doing so. I relate that to when people say something like “you have no idea”, which is such a pet peeve of mine.

Aside from that small issue, I definitely got choked up more than once, and couldn’t believe the devastation that happened in Rwanda. I had no idea that they were involved in a civil war in the 1990’s, and never learned about the genocide and terror caused by the war. An estimated half million to one million people were killed in the war, and this was less than 30 years ago. I read a little more about the civil war after I finished the book, which is always a good sign to me- if I seek more info when I’m finished with a novel, the author has made me curious and interested in the topic of their book, not just the content.

Overall, I would certainly recommend The Girl Who Smiles Beads. The hype is real, but so is the emotional impact. If you choose to pick this title up, have a box of tissues handy.

elsiebrady's review against another edition

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4.0

I imagine when refugees are finally in a safe country their struggles will be lessened. Clemantine shares how their struggles become illuminated, misunderstood and difficult to comprehend by the individual and humanity. Her story is atrocious, unfortunately common and yet difficult to imagine. We have so much to learn as we try to embrace our world community.

bookishjenx's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

5.0

An incredible memoir

abbeykatew's review against another edition

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5.0

I devoured this book. I couldn’t put it down — and finished it in a bit over 24 hours (during the work week!). The author’s way with words was inspiring — not simply for the story itself and what she and her sister were able to survive, but also for the prose. The descriptions, the metaphors, the way she connected feelings and events, it felt like art. Simply masterful. I’ll be thinking about this book for a long time.

cateyackerman's review against another edition

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hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0

mcdermottcecelia's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced

3.5

ehwhitty's review against another edition

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dark reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

casehouse's review against another edition

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4.0

Wow. A powerful memoir that makes you think beyond "survivor" or "victim" and ponder how we each have something to give as well as receive. Loved this.