alo10's review

3.75
adventurous emotional hopeful medium-paced

chamilton3396's review

2.0

From the perspective of someone who reads a lot of memoirs, I would not recommend.
From the perspective of someone who is fascinated by whales, I would not recommend.
From the perspective of someone who is intrigued about indigenous traditions and stories - I would maybe recommend?? If you are alright with reading "Whales mummy!" a few hundred times, give it a go.
The best parts were her reflections back to her time in Alaska living among the locals and learning about their culture and the whales.
Unfortunately there was much more about the (self acknowledged) poorly planned chase of grays during their migration north. Visas aside - you can't expect a 4th of July firework show when you show up in early September.

Everything about the pony? Slightly weird and depressing and not all that interesting.

I also needed to know how we ended the memoir with more children while still fully wrapped up in the fantasy of a former lover. Huh??
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wetmillk's review

5.0

wasnt sure at first but ended up being the most beautiful story about motherhood, heartbreak, hope and the importance of indigenous perspective and life. absolutely amazing

bethd2828's review

4.5
hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted relaxing sad medium-paced
emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced
adventurous emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
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clwojick's review

2.0
informative slow-paced
adventurous emotional hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted reflective tense slow-paced

_adelame_'s review

3.5
adventurous informative reflective slow-paced
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historic_chronicles's review

5.0
informative reflective medium-paced

"I am whale diving. The light shrinks to a shining hole above. My blood-pumps slows, lungs close, body shuts down. Colour slips away. I'm lost in a deep mist. I hear the ocean floor, twisting, flowing. Water sizzles, hums with life, shrimps snap. I probe the dark for voices, call out, try to summon the greys."

This extraordinary memoir documents the journey of a mother and son as they follow the migration of the grey whales from Baja to the Arctic.

"I told myself I would relearn from the whales how to mother, how to endure, how to live."

Part memoir, travelogue and nature writing, Doreen Cunningham presents this artful and completely unapologetic tale that is powerful and captivating as she recollects the challenges she has faced in becoming a single mother while finding friends in unlikely places and experiencing adventures of a lifetime.

Cunningham's narration is deeply moving and raw, you get a sense that she is baring her soul to the reader in her reflection.

"You are unique and spectacular beings, sentinels of the sea, ecosystem engineers, harbingers of the climate change that will affect us all."

Her writing is almost poetic as she describes the landscapes and I was particularly enthralled by the tales of the Utqigvik community and their unique lifestyle.

The ever-present concern of climate change is present and very real within this book and Cunningham explores it with grace, weaving its importance throughout her personal story in an impactful style. An incredibly important book.

"This is what the ocean should be like everywhere, what it once was. Populated, a home to wild and teeming communities, to the most incredible lives, journeys and ecologies."

I would like to thank @doreenwriting for offering me a copy of her incredible book and to @viragopress for so kindly providing the copy.