4.18 AVERAGE

emotional reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No
emotional reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

These are beautiful stories, though heartbreaking, and lonely. Lahiri’s stories encompass family, grief, love and the loss of it.

Read this for book club without realizing its popularity. I learned many things about Indian culture, specifically women’s roles.

Interesting read... stories were a bit depressing though.

This is a collection of short stories written by the author. Each story involves an Indian woman or couple. It was really interesting to see and understand some of the traditions within the culture. I found it very enjoyable.
emotional funny inspiring reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

I enjoyed the realism of each of the stories in this collection even when that reality was uncomfortable or unpleasant. The title story haunted me in that sense. I noticed marriage was a recurring theme, and it was interesting to see how the characters in each story viewed it as almost all featured marriages were arranged. It was like a window into a culture, and I appreciated Lahiri providing that access.

A beautiful collection of short stories that follow the lives of people who have left India to find life and love in other parts of the world. It includes a story of a man who interprets sickness for a doctor who does not know the Indian language and of a woman who is so homesick that she reads and re-reads the letters from home. Lyrical language that captures human emotion and the relationships between people that make life so interesting.

"A Temporary Matter" ★★★
"When Mr. Pirzada Came to Dine" ★★★★★
"Interpreter of Maladies" ★★
"A Real Durwan" ★★★
"Sexy" ★★
"Mrs. Sen's" ★★
"This Blessed House" ★★
"The Treatment of Bibi Haldar" ★★★
"The Third and Final Continent" ★★★★

These Pulitzer winning short stories are a collection of musings on being adrift: the state of those who find themselves in strange lands removed from past lives and the new realities they construct for themselves. The setting adrift takes place through immigration, marriage, displacement from political upheaval, the resolute passage of time. Melancholy pervades the book, as does a sort of removal, a film made of distance, as the stories of those adrift are told by those who surround them but do not understand them. We learn through proximity about brown immigrants through the eyes of white Americans; about displaced Bengalis from their new Indian neighbors; about Indian Americans through the eyes of Indians; about an ancient woman from her young tenant.

My personal favorite was "When Mr. Pirzada Came to Dine", the story of a young Indian family's hospitality to a Bengali academic on fellowship in Boston as unrest in India threatens his family back home. A quiet portrait of an immigrant family creating community, this story juxtaposes the comfort found in fellow outsiders who back home would be on opposite sides of a brewing political conflict. Told through the eyes of the family's young daughter, I found this immigrant story to be beautiful, relatable, and humanizing.

However, I can't say that I particularly enjoyed many of the other stories. As they are all told with one level of separation, they tell more about perceptions of outsiders and offer less understanding of the outsiders themselves. Our lens becomes one of pity, disgust, or mild intrigue. We are not often meant to understand the oddballs in these stories, which makes for a somewhat apathetic and dehumanizing reading experience.