3.77 AVERAGE

medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: N/A
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

Meh, interesting enough, but ultimately falls flat. 
challenging emotional reflective fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Love the idea behind this book. It is certainly not a light hearted rom com, but a story of grief and growth and culture and community. I don’t love the friends with benefits trope, and again, I felt frustrated by the FMC as it seemed like she was so bent on lying to herself and all around her just to appease her parents. Parents opinions are important, add to that the trauma they all experienced, but for a 30yo to still strive to please unpleaseable parents, and for those parents to demand her submission, that’s one that just grates on me. Overall, loved the story, the characters, and the way they processed and matured, but there were times when it felt like the spice was added in unnecessarily, and with the things mentioned above, I’d probably give it a 3.5 star. 

About halfway through the plot stopped plotting and the spice got laughable. 
challenging dark emotional funny hopeful reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional funny reflective tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

The story had some difficult topics to deal with, and I thought it was done in a really delicate way. the family dynamics were very relatable and honest. The ending felt a bit rushed, but the months leading up to it felt drawn out, so i guess it’s a balance. The narrators on audio were great!
emotional funny reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
emotional hopeful medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes

This book felt like a warm hug. The characters were really well rounded and their reactions felt so real. I can understand why this book won a Goodreads award.
dark slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This book was all over the place. The pacing was weird, and the characters lacked depth. 
emotional hopeful sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes