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I Have the Right to Destroy Myself by Young-Ha Kim

nsv's review against another edition

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dark reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

tatedixon19's review

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mysterious fast-paced

4.5

natalie27's review

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3.0

this book is definitely not for everyone but i found it interesting although a bit confusing at times

leming's review against another edition

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dark slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Diverse cast of characters? No

2.0

googlybeans's review

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dark tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? N/A
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75

i have a love/hate relationship with this book. it had an interesting perspective on suicide but it’s definitely not for everyone 

alexisxsparrow's review

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dark tense slow-paced

3.0

weird but interesting 

kirrai's review against another edition

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dark inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

snoopyalbar's review

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2.0

Is it supossed to be deep or something? Totally pointless.

sas_lk's review

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dark slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No

2.0

Something kept bothering me about this book. I really liked Kim Young-Ha's "A Diary of a Murderer and Other Stories", so i decided to pick this one up. 
What I liked so much about that short story collection, is that one could feel what deep understanding Kim has for humanity. His short stories were so well written and depicted humanity so well.

However, with this book, it's like he did not understand humans, especially women. I only understood what bothered me when I read someone else's 1 star review: 
"I guessed that the author is male [...] I’m just so tired of reading about disturbed young women who for some reason are always nyphomans. [...]"
And that pretty much sums up what I felt. These women are just really deeply traumatised and suicidal, and for some reason male authors think this concept is fascinating. It's just a book about men projecting their simple understanding of life onto women who have lived horrible pasts and lives, and then being confused when the women stand up for themselves or call them assholes. 
I'm tired of these tropes now. 

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suhkrusai's review

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dark fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.0

I guessed that the author is male from the first few pages and it does not always mean that the writing is bad but it was isufferable in this book. I’m just so tired of reading about distubed young women who for some reason are always nyphomans. Only finished it because it’s so short.